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bobbysmiley

38 Lansing, MI Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:02pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Distracted by distraction from distraction. From youth in Texas, Saudi Arabia, and Switzerland, college and graduate school in Wisconsin and Connecticut, and gainful employment in Illinois and California. Erstwhile teacher, permanent graduate student (whether enrolled in school or not), and a relocatee to the Great Lake State from NYC (to work as an academic librarian). Loves the company of the friends and the energetic conversation of the enthusiastic. (Indeed, there's nothing more infectious than conversing with somebody about what they care about the most.) I tend to dress up when I travel. I've also authored four encyclopedia entries, and have a couple more in the hopper. And my name really is Bobby Smiley.
What I’m doing with my life
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Former teacher, inveterate graduate student, and now finally an academic librarian. Is it corny to say that I love what I do, because I really do.
I’m really good at
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Being chatty, recalling things (especially trivial), identifying airplanes. Also, I make a pretty damn good baked mac-n-cheese. Plus, I'm good at being down for karaoke.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Enthusiasm---this I have endless quantities. And how!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Richard Yates, Vladamir Nabokov, James Salter, Jackson Lears, William Appleman Williams, Christopher Lasch

Films: Point of Order, Jaana Aryaan, The Graduate, The Right Stuff, Night on Earth, documentaries

Music: Galaxie 500, GBV, Tobin Sprout, The 'Mats, Small Factory, Springsteen, Pavement, Thrush Hermit, Hazel, Wire, Vitreous Humor, and allied stuff that people who went to college in the 90s and wore ringer tees liked

Food: Yes, and more please.
You should message me if
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If you want to grab a toddy, have a chat, and are as flummoxed as I about the metrics that determine OKC matches. Or if you have any suggestions for places to frequent for a relative greenhorn to the mitten's capital.