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46 • Seattle, WA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–48
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 4:39am
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Strictly anything
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
- Has a kid
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
Finding the funny in practically everything.
Sharing stories that once made me blue but now make others laugh.
Cooking beautiful delicious meals.
(summary of job expectations)
Exploring boundaries and physicality through SSC or RACK.
Improving the safety and cost of healthcare.
Relishing the fun that an unencumbered man can find (1/2 the time).
Raising my daughter (1/2 the time).
knowing the answer
figuring it out
I admit to select tv shows, wonderful movies (wonderfully done or wonderfully bad), a hunger for music of many sorts.
I'm not much of a sports fan.
I do, in fact, like improvisational theater. You don't have to and I promise I won't EVER plan it as a shared activity unless you ask. It's ok ;- ) I get it.
The ability to think at least as well as I do now
The ability to communicate at least as well as a 5 year old
(To be clear - there is no hierarchy possible when all 6 things are necessities, so the order does not matter) (except that I chose the previous hierarchy which means the order must matter, at least for today)
Then there's the really nerdy stuff: I think about the rapidly increasing pace of technological innovation and the coming Singularity.
I wonder whether we are already living in a post-literate society and if we are should I change how I interact with the world.
Where's my flying car and dinner pill?
Then back to Sex: Sex in general, sex in specific circumstances, sex on a beach, sex in a treehouse, sex at your house How I started out kinky, accepted vanilla for so so long, rediscovered kinky, practiced kink, learned kink, practiced kink, am Kinky
I also think about personal-growth type stuff: What I want and what I need. Poly codes of conduct. Complex problems with simple solutions. What I'm going to include in my book. How to be a balanced person.
[special section for kinksters]:
You've read my FL profile and thought, "we could do that" about at least 2 entries
You want to tie me up and make me wait
You are looking for a practice partner for sensation, rope, control, or electricity play
You'd like to see what I have in my toy bag.
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