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46 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I like to tell stories, cook, ride my motorcycle, kiss, read, play games (all sorts), laugh, explore new cuisine, cuddle on the couch in front of a fire with nosh and drink and someone, and so much more....

I am funny, uber-smart, and modest
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Showing up.
Being smart.
Being helpful.

Sharing the stories that once made me cry but now make others laugh.

Cooking beautiful delicious meals for my kid or for me or for both of us.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Shakespeare, solving problems, writing, kissing, cooking, listening, sex, computers, theatre stuff, hugs, kinky-stuff, telling stories, making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Many people are sure they've met me before: I have one of those faces.

After that? I have blue eyes once described as "deep." My butt has been described as "tight.".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Wouldn't it be better to save these for first date fodder?

I admit to select tv shows, wonderful movies (wonderfully done or wonderfully bad), a hunger for music of many sorts.

I'm not much of a sports fan.

I do, in fact, like improvisational theater. You don't have to and I promise I won't EVER plan it as a shared activity unless you ask. It's ok - I get it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
More than half of my memories
The ability to think at least as well as I do now
The ability to communicate at least as well as a 5 year old

(To be clear - there is no hierarchy possible when all 6 things are necessities, so the order does not matter)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
At least **some** of the common nerdy-guy things: Kissing. Sex. How inconvenient most life-maintenance is. Robots who could do said life-maint and how cool that would be.

Then there's the really nerdy stuff: I think about the rapidly increasing pace of technological innovation and the coming Singularity.

I wonder whether we are already living in a post-literate society and if we are should I change how I interact with the world.

Where's my flying car and dinner pill?

Then back to Sex: Sex in general, sex in specific circumstances, sex on a beach, sex in a treehouse, sex at your house How I started out kinky, accepted vanilla for so so long, rediscovered kinky, practiced kink, learned kink, practiced kink, am Kinky

I also think about personal-growth type stuff: What I want and what I need. Poly codes of conduct. Complex problems with simple solutions. What I'm going to include in my book. How to be a balanced person.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My Fridays alternate between being a single parent and being an unencumbered adult.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My favorite number is 13. I don't enjoy chit-chat which means I sometimes drive a conversation too deep too fast.
You should message me if
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You want to know more.

[special section for kinksters]:
You've read my FL profile and thought, "we could do that" about at least 2 entries


You want to tie me up and make me wait


You are looking for a practice partner for sensation, rope, control, or electricity play


You'd like to see what I have in my toy bag.