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45 Jersey City, NJ Man


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  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
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Buddhism, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
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Has kids
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Me: NY born and bred full-grown man. I've lived in Florence Italy, Honolulu Hawaii, and have traveled a decent part of this globe, but NYC has me in its clutches and I love it better place to come home to. I have a very spacious and lovely brownstone in Jersey City just across the water, but spend my social life in the city - mainly Village, Soho, Tribeca, LES, Williamsburg, etc. I love floating between worlds and groups of people, hence my enduring love for this city which affords us this very special luxury.

You: a sexy, fit, smart, talented, independent and successful woman who loves floating through worlds too.

Looking for a real-deal partner in crime.
What I’m doing with my life
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Besides living, breathing and cultivating happiness, I'm CEO of a creative integrated advertising and digital marketing agency focused on socially responsible business transformation ...yep that's possible. I'm also a singer/songwriter, meditator, avid yoga-dude, and dedicated road cyclist. Not necessarily in that order.
I’m really good at
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Playing piano, guitar and singing. Also quite good at thinking up (and selling in) crazy ideas that companies want to use as their brand and marketing platforms. But I suppose I'm working hardest on being a great dad, a compassionate person, a great friend to many, and a grateful, happy fellow member of the planet.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some recent fav books: This Town, Political stuff, anything by Karen Armstrong, 'Dharma Punx', Richard Ford novels, Shantaram, The Art of Happiness, 'The Elegant Universe', 'Confession of a Buddhist Atheist', Dr. Seuss, anything Tom Robbins, Rumi poems, and I make it a practice to read Siddhartha once a year ...recommended highly

...some fav movies: Waking Life, Dazed and Confused (anything Linklater), Wes Anderson movies, Goodfellas, Diner, Star Wars (yeah - of course), Toy Story 3 (seriously hysterical and I cried), anything Matrix-ey, anything brainy

...some fav music: a foundation of the classics like Beatles, Rolling Stones, Allman Bros, Velvet Underground, 70's rock ROCKS!!, a strong helping of jazz and soul - 50's and 60's is my favorite jazz stuff, soul like Donny Hathaway, Al Green, Stax/Volt artists, Aretha, etc. burns me deep inside, and heaps and heaps of indie stuff like Black Keys, The XX's, Phantogram, Real Estate, , Elbow, Doves, Radiohead, Bat for Lashes, Band of Horses, Jose Gonzalez, Phoenix, Broken Bells, Flaming Lips, etc. etc. yada yada
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids, more stuff to learn, my guitar, access to a piano, love, and mostly oxygen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to increase happiness and how to reduce suffering

why people are so caught up in silly stuff

whether the universe is expanding or contracting
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
decompressing probably ...Friday nights are for amateurs
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I hate getting change ...coins freak me out
You should message me if
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- you're a fit, fine, fun girl
- you have real comprehensive recent photos and you're not lying about your age (been there, not pretty)
- you fit in my age range ...really
- you're a basically happy, well-adjusted, creative, successful, spiritual, and sexy person
- you think you're the jelly to my peanut butter

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