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26 M Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jul 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English, Bulgarian

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've kind of skipped my 20s and went straight to 30s. In my 30s I plan on living my 20s. Seems like things will be more fun that way. I live for learning and strive for knowing. Exploring the world and the people in it gives me perspective. I'd like to make an art of it. I believe we call it personal growth. I'm into it. I used to have a hard time without it. I like the good things and I also like the bad. I've learned everything has a little of both, and nothing is one or the other. So I'm not sure I should be making a list of likes and dislikes, goods and bads, wants and dont's, I like to think of myself as flexible and understanding.

I'm not much for cheesy words meant to describe my whole soul in one sentence but if thats what you want (its not) I'll try. I'm not saying I'm complicated, rather, its better to get somewhere more authentic and more fulfilling if you want to know someone, I think you know what I mean. It goes both ways. By that I mean we have to go somewhere away from these one sided conversations that is every profile here ;)

Thats right, lets grab a coffee or a drink, talk it out, learn and/or feel something. Thats why we're here right? I don't mean just okcupid, I mean life in general. You have a kink? Awesome, I want to know about it, maybe I have it too. Have a problem? Whats on your mind, we've all been there, I hope I can help. Sad, happy, or just want some company? Message me, maybe I'm feeling the same tonight.

I'm here to meet interesting people within or outside my usual bubble of people - to laugh with, learn from, and love with..people fascinate me. The wacky the weird the black sheep and the underdogs, but also the normal, the quaint, the studious, the feisty and the dainty, the nerdy and the trendy. All are valid people I enjoy. Tell me what you're here for. I like listening and really hearing, telling stories, solving problems, starting adventures, finishing projects, traveling, talking til the sun comes up, and more or less planning world domination and all the mischief that comes with it.

Good food, good love, good wine and good conversation? You betcha. Dogs and cats or both? Long walks on the beach? We're not so different after all. Really, I think its not about where we've come from or what we like. Although fascinating, these lists can be quite predictable. Rather, I want to know what we're gonna do - so why not ask me, or tell me, what are we gonna do? What do we want to do? Where are we gonna do it and how do we keep doing it from there?

I have a good time relating, even if I can't, the experience is valid and valuable. I want to keep this profile from getting all deep, though thats who I am, it sounds so serious when you put it here on a profile - its like a one sided conversation and I'm really not that full of myself. If you're still reading, thanks! Its your turn now.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm happy with where I am in life and a little discomfort, challenge, or being out of my element isn't gonna hurt me, in fact, I kind of want it.

I work from home and have built up a stable ecommerce business over the years. Sometimes I am very busy, but other times I can be very free and flexible regarding time. Its great being your own boss, although the first year was a tremendous excersize in discipline. If I mess up there is no one to blame, or to help me fix it, other than myself. I grew up and got it together.

When I'm not engaged in earth shatteringly deep conversation that binds souls forever, I enjoy:

-cooking (I call it alchemy)
- art
- design
-gardening (vegetables in particular)
-making music (been producing and DJing for 8 years)
-whiskey
-making whiskey (this project is in its infancy)
-traveling
-listening
-talking
-social events (classes, workshops, art openings, parties, academia, meetups, swapmeets, festivals, whatever gets me out of the house)
-working (I do love to work)
-reading/studying
-psychology
-being in love
-biking
-projects
-kissing
-hiking
-sex things
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
See above list.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Never thought of it that way, speaking existentially, I'm not sure I can know unless I ask them... as well, how can I generalize an entire people and say what they all think of me, I can't do it. I'm sure each person thinks something different, anywhere from I'd like to stuff his face in my bosom to I'd like to stuff his face into my fist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Sorry I've already written a list, this profile can't take another one. You'll have to talk to me in person about this stuff.

I have thousands of books. I like many kinds of electronic music, psytrance, minimal, warehouses, moontribe, parties, oysters, and adult swim.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I think I can do okay without quite a lot, I would be upset for a time but it can all be overcome. I will answer this question more practically, not everyone is a space cadet like me.

-Coffee
-Cuddles
-Music
-Greenery
-Food
-Feelings

Meh, seems lame. I will revisit this section.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Are you hot or are you not?

Just kidding.

I think about damn near everything. I try to search for the truth in things, I mean in a philosophical or existential sense. Sorry if thats lame, I'm not trying to impress anyone. Just answering the question. Honestly Its helped me ground myself and become a solid and wholesome person, a lot of trouble in the world or in our selves can be avoided or healed if we really ask, is it true. I mean is it really really true, to its core, without any judgement or biases or motives. A clear, unattatched and unbiases understanding of a thing gets us closer to what it really is, and understanding what it is, is the foundation needed to help, heal, love, and progress.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you wanna chat, duh!