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30 Birmingham, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:42pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi I'm Rob, thanks for visiting my profile :-)

I’m a generally positive and happy 29 year old. I’m confident, loyal, caring and pretty much nice all round (almost to a fault, but not quite!)

I’m fairly intelligent and I like good, interesting conversation. I love music, films and books and will happily chat about any and all of these extensively. I’m also a big art fan and I like going to galleries. I’m into culture and I love going to museums and the like, don’t go to the theatre much but I think I’d quite like to.

I’m a bit of a geek, I love learning (especially history), I have an interest in politics and philosophy, I watch documentaries and I play the occasional computer game.

Oh and I love the natural world - trees, landscapes, seascapes as well in fact, yeah all of that. I don’t get to see much of that on a daily basis as I live in the centre of Birmingham, being there certainly has its advantages though.

Aside from all of that the bits below and the various match questions thingies provide a fairly accurate picture of me, though there is more to me of course (as is the case with most people!)

If you like what you see please do say hi :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I live in the centre of Birmingham, it's one of the most vibrant and diverse places in Britain and I love it. I enjoy exploring what the city has to offer with my mates and at some point I'd love to do the same with someone special.

I've lived in the north, south and middle of England and been fortunate enough to visit quite a few other countries (and would love to visit more!)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversation, in the right company.

Making people laugh, well, my mates anyway, so again in the right company I guess :-)

I can cook pretty well, not sure about 'really good' but definitely 'competent'
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically it's possibly my hair, it's really thick and can be... unruly. Managed to get it mostly under control in recent years fortunately.

My eyes are apparently fairly notable as well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
1. 1984 2. The Rules of Attraction 3. Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep? 4. On the Road 5. Generation X

1. Apocalypse Now 2. Suzhou River 3. Hero 4. A Scanner Darkly
5. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

1. Radiohead 2. Arcade Fire 3. Smashing Pumpkins 4. Wolf Parade 5. Manic Street Preachers

I've of course got a lot more than a top 5 for all the above but I don't want to give everything away! Lol. Same goes for food preferences, TV shows etc - ask and I'll happily tell :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Music
2. A computer (unfortunately, though part of me really wouldn't mind trying!)
3. Art/culture/literature
4. My family and friends
5. The natural world
6. Hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How very strange human behaviour can be

Why I'm almost always wide awake at midnight and barely functional in the morning

What it was like to be alive in different bits of the past and what it will be like to be alive in the future

Whichever book I happen to be reading
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out, usually, I'm still fairly young lol. Normally pubs with my mates nowadays, we don't really go to clubs so much any more.

Equally happy to stay in though if the company is right :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have an inexplicable thing for Susie Dent from countdown lol.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'll talk to pretty much anyone but if at least some of the following apply to you we'll probably get on better than if they don't :-)

You're open minded and tolerant.

You like intelligence and good conversation.

You don't hate geeks. I'm not into everything geeky and it's certainly not all I am, but if you really hate sci-fi and games you'll probably not be interested in me.