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29 London, UK Gender Nonconforming

Gender Nonconforming

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18-80
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:42am
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Dropped out of Space camp
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Intellectual non-academic, I dropped out of high school at 15 and again at 17. Then I dropped out of university at 21 and just dropped out of college at 28. Apparently I'm big on quitting. Or I hate school.

The plus side of this is that I know a little bit about nearly everything, from economics to art to bike mechanics to music, because I've tried doing nearly everything.

I'm 100% feminist, and the challenges women face as independent members of society enrages me, as does the challenges and discrimination faced by people of color and the working class/impoverished, and the disabled, and the old. I can discuss that and the other power dynamics of our society endlessly. If you disagree, then we will probably find each other very annoying... so message me only if you are also impassioned by the unfair social constructs of our world and history which leads to the oppression, sickness and death of billions. (Am I hamming it up to ensure no conservative men message me? Yes.)

I'm weird, bold, sometimes sharp and funny, I'm a pretty good idea for a date at the least.
What I’m doing with my life
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I just got to London from Toronto, Canada. I'm here for a couple years on a youth visa and I am just collecting interesting experiences. My plans so far include buying a motorcycle and riding it through Europe.

I've been a music booker in NYC, and I was general manager of a music venue in Brooklyn. I lived in Toronto Canada for the past 3 years learning to record, produce, make better art, and performed a lot. I started a book.

My twitter handle is @boni_wong
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Having fun sober.

Travelling light.

Reading minds.

Being handy.

Making spaces beautiful.

Sex. (I practice tantra)

Making food.


I'm bad at accepting authority, and not so good at saving the world.

The first things people usually notice about me
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This sounds corny but I've been told I radiate happiness. Next most obvious is that I'm weird and also pretty. I also (usually) look like I'm from the future. I think people catch my daydreams running across my face when I'm by myself in public, and I'm always very aware, but too late to stop myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This question is the worst, taste is so subjective and not an indicator of chemistry...

I like smart media that features diversity.

Good music comes from everywhere, I really believe that.

I really like a hugely diverse amount of food. I also like sustainable and ethical practices. This makes me very torn. Not huge into eating meat everyday but just because it makes me feel genuinely guilty unless I shook the hands of the guy who raised the animal and I believed they did it with compassion. Really.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
eating good food, a comfortable bed with smooth soft sheets, reading articles on the internet, intellectual conversation with cool people, freedom and purpose.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human rights, authenticity, sustainability, pleasure, love, laughter. How to make the world and myself better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a show... live music or circus or burlesque or performance art or something other weird thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I went to Burning Man and got kicked out of the orgy dome. Luckily it wasnt my first orgy.
You should message me if
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You are intelligent, mature, self-actualized, regularly defy convention, know how to have a good time without drinking or drugs, (not that drinking or drugs are bad, I've done plenty, just not necessary) and you really, really like me. I read an article the other day about how you should only date people who really like you, seemed like sound advice.

Or if you are interested in joining my cult.