If you're not into yoga, if you have half a brain
If you like making love at midnight in the dunes of the cape
Then I'm the love that you've looked for, write to me and escape"
- My name is Chelsea.
- I have a 6 year old son (his dad and I were married but are going through a divorce)
- I'm not looking for love. I'm pretty numb to feelings lately. Friends are good though. (UPDATE 10/5/14: I feel ready to date. I've never had a "normal" relationship and would really like to give that a shot).
- I'm not looking for a father for my son. He has one. In fact, I would like to keep my love life completely separate from my son for a very long time. He will only meet someone if I am planning on being with them forever.
- I don't want someone to "take care of me". I enjoy my independence and providing for myself and my son.
- I don't want to be showered in expensive gifts or jewelry, however I do love gift giving and would love to find someone who "gets me"...who just understands me enough to know what I would want for holidays and special occasions. Hint: Gifts that come from the heart are the best and will get you very far with me...mixtapes (CDs, playlists, whatever you want to call it now), a song, poem, video or art (something that shows creativity and feeling), sharing a new experience together (like traveling somewhere fun for the first time together or seeing a band or comedian together) or being introduced to or included in a hobby that's important to my significant other.
- Speaking of travel, I haven't done much of it but I really want to. I've never been outside of the USA and I've never been on a plane.
- I come off as an asshole even when I'm not trying to.
- I fall for songs with great lyrics. It's not about a catchy beat or what's on the top 40.
- I don't like country boys/girls. I'm sure you're all great, but I definitely have a type and you're not it (no offense).
- Chances are if you have a picture of yourself shirtless (without good reason, like swimming or something) or holding a dead animal of some sort on your profile, I won't be interested in you.
- If you immediately ask me about kik, porn, snapchat, sex, handies, blowies, boobs or anything of that nature, I won't be messaging you back.
- I like tall, skinny artistic types. That's what I'm drawn to. Great hair is a plus too! I like to have something to hold on to. ;)
- I'm on an indefinite hiatus from college while I figure out what I want to do with my life.
- I don't go out much but when I do I'm either checking out my friend's comedy routine or listening to some of my favorite local bands: The Cavemen, Rareluth, Selfawarewolf (no longer together, so sad), Carbon Poppies, Brass Bed, etc.
- I consider myself bisexual although I've never been in a relationship with a woman. I've had crushes on them and I've kissed them.
- I'm not the type to make the first move. I'm kind of shy at first, so if I give you a four or five star rating on here, that's your chance. Just sayin'. :)