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33 M Haverford, PA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:25am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hmm, lets see... I'm not really looking for something serious or physical at the moment. I would love someone I could just hang out with and talk about whatever we find interesting. Someone to go eat mexican food with, go to shows with, etc...

I'm a firm believer in the golden rule (if you think this has anything to do with urine... Move along!). I'm trying to live by the golden rule too, but I fail at times. I may be a little bit old fashioned at times and I still believe in being a gentleman because that's how my momma taught me. And I hope you not only appreciate respect, but demand it as well. If you were ever knowingly some dude's side piece, FWB, fuck buddy or whatever else the kids are doing these days... move along... (My momma told me to pick the very best one and you are not it)

I can be very opinionated and tend to wear my heart on my sleeve and appreciate others who do as well... Even if we disagree, I love the whole iron sharpening iron thing. Of all the things I know, I know that I'm not always right and I love mind changing debates.

I love an enormous variety of music, and am equally passionate about the music I hate. Which might annoy you at times. Especially if I think your music sucks (for an infinite number of reasons that i will gladly discuss if you choose) People who state that they love ALL music bother me... Move along

I'm a tennis fanatic. I love watching it, playing it, and teaching it. Which is convenient since I have a year round tennis job that consumes a big chunk of my time... especially in the spring and summer.

I'm originally from Oklahoma, I came here in '01 for a summer to visit some family and go see shows, and ended up staying because of a tennis job I landed. I am the son of a preacher man, so according to Dusty Springfield... I'm the only man that could ever teach you :) which is convenient given my career choice.
What I’m doing with my life
I've been working at a private club as a tennis coach for the last 13 years, but I'm not sure I can/want to do it for the rest of my life, but it'll do for the next five years I think. It's unbelievable pay but a rough life at times (YES, it IS a bonafide career so please don't ask me what my real job is, you'll just sound like an asshole)

FYI... Every girlfriend I've had in the last 13 years has had a difficult time with how much I work. I'm just trying to climb the ladder in hopes of eventually having time and money to do all the things I want to do. If you can be patient... I promise to spend my time and money doing all the things you want to do too. Deal???

I can be picky at times, but when I'm not working I like pretty much everything all the time. Going out, staying in, going to shows, food, booze, museum, bar, playing tennis, walking places, riding my bike, beer, art, candy, poetry, music, conversation, silence, debate, laughter, etc...
I’m really good at
problem solving, ranting and raving, parallel parking, walking in other people's shoes, explaining things in lehman's terms, making others laugh, spending too much money on the jukebox
The first things people usually notice about me
Im not sure actually probably my smile, maybe my shoes. I asked a close friend of mine and she said my hair... So I don't know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- I don't read enough books to mention any, the ones I do read are usually bio's, auto's, or true stories, I'm not into fiction. I'm a big fan of Juxtapoz magazine too.

Movies- Eternal Sunshine, Tombstone, Big Lebowski, What Dreams May Come, Point Break, The Crow, Little Miss Sunshine, Wes Anderson's movies, Vanilla Sky, Field of Dreams, Amelie, Catch Me if You Can, Tropic Thunder, Magnolia, just to name a couple. I love documentaries though.

Shows- I don't really watch TV very often, it's just how things work out with my time. But, I have no desire to watch television shows religiously. They call it programming for a reason.

Music-Pedro the Lion, and anything else by David Bazan, Overseas, Sigur Ros, Explosions in the Sky, Death Cab (b4 they were boring), Starflyer 59, Radiohead, Sam Cooke, Failure, Polica, Deftones, Elliott Smith, Otis Redding, St. Vincent, Appleseed Cast, Tame Impala, Beach House, Weezer (b4 they were out of touch w/ what made them great), Joe Cocker, Snowden, The Band, Buke & Gase, Local Natives, Father John Misty, Phantogram, Ed Sharpe..., the list goes awn and awn until the breaka dawn.

Food- I'm mostly a carnivore, I don't eat too many veggies (I blame my parents for creating a negative conditioned response haha), I love Mexican food, other than that if it's not toooo spicy, and not toooo veggie... I'll most likely eat it. Except Pickles... I absolutely hate pickles! I'm not joking... I hate them. I'm serious, I really do.
The six things I could never do without
my family, friends, my tennis racquet, my music, my phone, sense of humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
everything! lifes unanswerable questions, how things work, the feelings of others, sociology, psychology, space, time, the beginning, the end, the beginning of the end, the end of the beginning etc... I think alot, and no thought is treated as nonsense, I can't help it.
On a typical Friday night I am
There are infinite possibilities, but usually nothing too late because I normally work Saturday mornings.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
that i was married before (4 years ago), that i once bought a fushigi, that i think being 'open minded' is a nice way of saying that you are undecided and too scared or unoriginal to come up with an opinion of your own. I'm sure there's more but ill stop there.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–41
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
If you are funny and/or like to laugh, if you have a bit of class, if you've never gone through a lesbian stage, if you are a good tennis player (bad tennis players can message me too though), if you are intelligent, if you are attractive (on the inside or outside), if you are tall, if you wanna help me write a book (I'm totally serious about this), if you wanna message the best man this side of the mississippi!(serious bout that too)