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bonhommeguy

53 Rutherford, NJ Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 28
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Artistic and romantic by nature, interested in similar natured guy to spend time with. Healthy and athletic pursuits keep me in fair shape, although can be tempted to derail when there is good food and wine around. Liberal ethos and always interested in how society is evolving (or not).
What I’m doing with my life
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Wish I had the time to be a true renaissance man. I play the piano and it gives me a great deal of satisfaction. I paint and draw for fun and have a few sketch books going at once. I am a financial professional in design world and relate to creative types.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking food - and that means baking too. Studying art and trying to tell others how important it is for young peoples' education. I can make people laugh and tell stories that are a little twisted, cause life is like that.
The first things people usually notice about me
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eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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NY Times - takes a few nights, WSJ on the train home, Time Out - how many secret beer gardens are there in Brooklyn anyway? And have to read the T.O. sex column, although it usually grosses me out.
Mens Health because it comes to the house and I need to see if I can tell the difference between 8 different cologne strips. Gets me a little high. And the pictures of guys that, god, I hope are photo-shopped.

Movies are a big deal for me. Have a wide variety of likes, except slasher movies. Highly recommend; A Separation, LA Mission, Ajami, Chris and Don, Consequences, A Better Life.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
IPhone (sigh)
My car
My piano
Central park
Good food and wine
Hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
family and friends
Why conservatives freak me out
Sleeping late
When I will get to the ocean again
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Try me
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love my privacy
You should message me if
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You are sincere.