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bonjourbabar

29 / F / Bisexual / Single

Studio City, California

Her Details

Last Online
May 21, 2010
Ethnicity
Black, Native American, White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish

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My self-summary
I may be too easily wooed by someone who can make me laugh...Humor just melts my heart...
Anyway, I also enjoy film, TV along the lines of: Arrested Development, 30 Rock, Twin Peaks, How I Met Your Mother. Reading, writing, karaoke and characters. I moved to Studio City this past September and am living the life or attempting to. Part of me is still 12 years old minus most of the angst. Part of me is 68 minus tired bones. I am by nature very positive but enjoy cynicism and distaining things/people with friends in a playful way. I like saying "It's on like Donkey Kong!" and "You know how we do." I majored in sociology and almost majored in film but...stuff happened. I love action movies and sociological theories surrounding the genre. No, really.

I am quirky, curious, and friendly
What I’m doing with my life
I want to be a writer (no, seriously) and am currently working on some screenplays, a graphic novel and some other random projects. I'd also kinda like to be a professional librarian. Word.

Current obsessions include: tea, the Wicked soundtrack, how good I Love You Man was, running while listening to Jay-Z, making sauces, netflixing Battlestar Galactica
Notable past obsessions include: Louis CK; Jeremy Piven; brevity; eating red meat; singing Disney tunes while biking home; I Love New York season 2; R. Kelly's "Real Talk"; figuring out my life (in a fun way).
I’m really good at
This section is hard because I am perhaps too often modest. I'm working on it. Anyway:
Drawing helicopters. Dancing. Drinking beer. Making people laugh. Reading people. Developing creative activities and programs for social groups. Listening. Being open-minded. Kissing, etc...
Writing dialogue. Frontin', being sharp. Silliness.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile (dimples) and eyes. Then perhaps my style of dress and hair on good days. Also my innitial shyness but good nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(A) Illusions by Richard Bach; The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera; books by Kurt Vonnegut Jr., mainly Breakfast of Champions and Cat's Cradle. J.D. Salinger is the shit! Franny & Zooey holla! Possible Side Effects; I Am Legend.

(B) Back to the Future; 8 1/2; Stand By Me; Say Anything...; Underground; Die Hard; Star Wars; North By Northwest; Psycho; The Virgin Suicides; The Point; Band of Outsiders; The Nightmare Before Christmas; Harry Potter; Castle in the Sky; Beauty and the Beast; Clueless; Unleashed; Enter the Dragon; Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind; All About Eve; All About My Mother; Hook.
(B-1: Favorite Television shows/series)
Buffy the Vampire Slayer!!!; Twin Peaks; Arrested Development; 30 Rock; How I Met Your Mother; older Scrubs; Battlestar Galactica (new); The Mary Tyler Moore Show; Pete & Pete; Friday Night Lights

C) The Smashing Pumpkins, The Clash, Mos Def, Lauryn Hill, dance pop, Explosions in the Sky, The Velvet Underground, The Violent Femmes, classic rock, David Bowie, Disney soundtracks, Earth Wind & Fire, Janet Jackson, Sage Francis, Beck, Badly Drawn Boy, Led Zeppelin...etc.

(D) MMMM...I love steak, potatos, garlic, clam chowder, avacados, sausage, soy milk, chocolate milk, Thai, cheesecake, eggs, Taco Bell...
The six things I could never do without
Love, food, art (I include film and literature as a 2 for 1 bonus), loved ones, humor, compassion.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to maximize my day. How to be a better person. People I know. Writing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Mad silliness...Dressing up, watching movies, playing gamecube,dancing and drinking with friends either at home or downtown.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to have a Justin Timberlake poster on my ceiling...

...And now I miss it.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 22–46
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
If you want to? I'm not sure what to type here...