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36 Portland, OR Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:14pm
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
A little extra
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let's be honest. This part is hard. How do you explain yourself to others in a captivating way to get them to keep reading? Well, here goes...

I'm a warm and loving butch with as tender of a side as I am tough. Not tough as in closed off and stone, tough as in I've been through a lot in life and can handle it. I've got my shit together so to speak and don't need anyone to fix me. Rather, I'm just looking for a lady who wants a strong and kind partner to tackle life with.

I'm not wanting to move fast here, but also not wanting to waste anyone's time. I want to actually date, have some fun and get to know each other. Remaining open to see each other for who we truly are, not put each other in boxes based off our previous experiences and relationships. I'm not your ex and I know you are not mine!

So if that sounds good to you, then hopefully you are still reading this...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Seeking joy. It's the little things in life that fill us with happiness. Going out for breakfast with good friends. Hiking to waterfalls. Camping in the middle of nowhere under a blanket of stars. Making a meal for a house full of company. Throwing the ball for my dog until she lays down from exhaustion.

To me life is about experiences with people you love and doing the things that bring you joy.

You have to seek out happiness, it will not fall in your lap.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing things with tools. Riding motorcycles. Connecting with others. Cooking. Working on my baking skills. Cuddling.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall. My Canadian accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
So. Many. Things.

I love to cook. Mostly because I love to eat. But seeing the pleasure that others get from something I created is pure magic to me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

Motorcycle (riding free)
Truck (climbing to unknown places)
Pets (their loyalty amazes me)
Touch (so I'm a hugger. Get used to it!)
The trees. All of them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make a difference in someone's life. What my dogs are thinking. How to fix that thing that broke. When do I get to go outside and play next. How to make a better cup of coffee. No the best cup of coffee. How to stay present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making dinner for friends or trying out a new place. Relaxing with a cigar and bourbon, or a perfect Pinot.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm always looking for an opportunity to use my tools.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to get a drink or go for an adventure. And yes, if you want a ride on my bike then just ask.