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58 F Ithaca, NY

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  • Ages 21–94
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My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:57pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently), German (Poorly), Latin (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I AM Bonze Anne Rose Blayk…

So far, my life has been pretty much yadda, yadda, yadda... if you know what I mean?

"But this world revolves, and now everything's changed" [VIDEOLINK] — so 100% OPEN is now the rule?

(I'm keeping this brief; see my linkfarm on gravatar for more? - or not ?-)

NOTE: I'm listing myself as "Female" here... because there are no options on this site for a certified trans woman: "Assigned Male At Birth" because my genitalia were normal for a male; but my brainsex (formed AFTER my mother took ill in the 24th week of carrying me), and the wiring of my nervous system? It's more FEMALE than not, and so psychologically, I'm "Female" - so that's what it says on both my driver's license and my passport.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
... enacting muzic ...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... "bogosity", "pomposity", "generosity", "celebrity", and other noun-type words gifted/afflicted with an -ity at the end.

And particularly … "Sincerity".
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm 1) transsexual, 2) "spectacular" — some prefer the term "awesome"? — and 3) very friendly.

And that I have some kind of thing going on with guitars?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Name of the Rose - Umberto Eco
Mystery Men
Red Letter (obscure Ithaca ambient-psychedelic-rock band)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, water, food, heat, music, dance, and attitude.


... you noticed, huh?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
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You should message me if
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… you are interested in … enacting muzic

I happen to be in love with a woman at the moment, and I never do "casual sex" to start with, so if that's what you're looking for… look elsewhere, please. ;-)

PS: I'm reaffirming publicly the religion in which I was baptised - Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) - and I'm laughing because - firstly - did not Jesus himself laugh? I do believe so! - and secondly, because in terms of my philosophical principles, I'm a Taoist, of the Chuang Tzu/humorous stripe, via Stirner, Hume, and Sun Tzu…

The "Drug" I use on a regular basis is marijuana - used for medicinal purposes. This wouldn't work for a "normal" person, but it's pretty obvious that I am anything BUT "normal" - right?

And the "Other" language in which I am fluent is straight K&R C .-)