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bookandocean

48 Baltimore, MD Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 41–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:11am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love spending time with smart, witty people. I value a sense of humor, a love of adventure, and loyalty. I am myself loyal, funny, and smart, and I appreciate a good adventure--especially if it makes a hilarious story later.

I love good food, wine and conversation. I have an adorable terrier, and we like hiking in beautiful places. I swim, bike, run (started recently), do yoga, and sail.

I'm looking for someone with whom to explore neighbourhoods and restaurants, to hike or bike, to talk about current or past events, or just to relax. I'm trying to learn how to cook; I have totally mastered eating and doing dishes. I don't have kids, but I enjoy having them in my life. I have a 6 year old godson who teaches me me a different kind of playfulness. I am thinking about getting another sailboat soon. I have an interesting life, and I am in a great position to share it.

If you are a thinking, evolving person, send me a message. I'd love to meet for a drink or coffee.

I prefer to date someone who lives nearby, but I can always make exceptions. I don't much like instant messaging, though. I'd much rather meet for a drink or coffee!
What I’m doing with my life
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I''m a university professor in the humanities. I travel for research quite a bit. I like getting to know other cultures and immersing myself in them. I'm currently writing a book, and I have been very involved with it, but after a year-long fellowship out of town, I'm glad to be back in the classroom and the city. I'm still working hard to finish the manuscript, but I'd like to meet someone with whom to spend quality time. Though I'm a bit bookish, I'm also social and fun. I have a good group of friends in Baltimore.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading; writing; editing; talking; laughing; identifying good restaurants from a mere glance; travelling (finding my way around new places and enjoying the challenge); being a friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am usually laughing. I talk to strangers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Jane Eyre; The Dragon Can't Dance; Persuasion; Mansfield Park; Blood Meridian; the Brief and Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao; anything by Erna Brodber and Kamau Braithwaite; Films: The Harder They Come; Shaw Shank Redemption; BBC Pride and Prejudice; and Mama Mia. Music: Bob Dylan; Bob Marley; Damien Marley; Stephen Marley; JGB; Fanton Mojah; The Clash; Johnny Cash; anything Reggae or sixties. Japanese; Indian; Caribbean; B-B-Q; grilled food and fresh fish.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dog; my friends; nature; cheese; coffee; books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
dinner
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with friends, drinking wine or at home with pup.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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What do you want to know?
You should message me if
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You are fun, thoughtful, interesting, funny, and honest.