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29 Hayward, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 17, 2013
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm a hedgehog with foxy ambitions.

I paint when I get the chance (never enough), take photos regularly, and find inspiration in as many places as I can. I'm a bibliophile and it's an advanced case. I'm athletic because it enriches my life- I'm training to swim a mile for women with cancer this fall. I am a bay area native and a globe trotter. I am deeply empathetic, thoughtful, and caring with a very upbeat nature.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a bookseller, so I'm so very lucky to have a gratifying job that nourishes my heart and enriches my community. Its a perfect fit for an English literature major. I'm also almost done with a paralegal certificate.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having a kind heart and open mind to the world around me and especially for those I love. Reading and having critical opinions about words and images, facts and ideas-sometimes in writing, sometimes just saying it out loud. Finding beauty in strange places (and in traditional ones too).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People comment on my eyes the most. They're green and one of my eyes is mostly green the other eye is green with lots of brown spots. I think its called a heterochromia iridum but I'm not sure because its, well, spotty.
Probably that I'm making a funny face about something. I'm very expressive.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have too many favorite books. Seriously. I'll list a top 5. 1. The Faerie Queene, 2."Their Eyes Were Watching God," 3. "Jane Eyre," 4. "Where the Wild Things Are" and 5."The Complete Poems of Emily Dickson." Hugely important in my life for separate reasons and all beloved.

Movies, I am always behind on. I love Hitchcock films. I love films by Jean Pierre Jeunet. Anything with Audrey Hepburn, Cary Grant, Gergory Peck, or Jimmy Stewart. Mel Brooks movies, cult classics like "The Princess Bride" and "Harold and Maude." Thoughtful, artful movies and occasionally comic book movies (I saw The Avengers twice.)

TV- I don't watch a lot. I like Sherlock, True Blood, Firefly, and British comedies.

Music- I like indie and bluegrass music mostly. I listen to the jazz station and love it. I like samba too.

Food- yes please.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am going to define things as not people..which I could never do without anyway.
1. Something to read. Preferably a novel or a book of poems but I'll take a magazine, a comic book, a blog, a tattoo, a bit of a thought scrawled on the side of a bus seat. Oh words, how I love them.
2. Tea and coffee. All the people (who are not things!) know that I am a partial zombie until I get some and I relish both for taste and for the leisure of drinking them.
3. Paper, paint, and brush. No these are not three separate things because they'd be useless if not paired together. A space to create.
4. Transportation of the shoe, bike, car, bus, plane, or train variety. "Live in the sunshine, swim in the sea, drink the wild air" or so says Emerson, and you have to get out there somehow... even if it's just walking out your door.
5. My music players. I'm attached enough to my ipod that I often bring it to bed. I don't know how people survive Christmas without a portable music player.
6. Pets...especially dogs.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Boy, this is hard to answer. Everything? What I heard on NPR or KPFA this morning. A book I'm reading. How absolutely gorgeous it is outside. A travel I went on or one I'm planning. How to make a glorious pie out of blueberries. Queer theory and Abe Lincoln and the twisted legal world. I read a lot, I think a lot, and I often have something to say.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a friend's house, watching a movie with a glass of wine. I'm a bit of a homebody and I am okay with it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like the way gasoline smells and I'm allergic to raw onions and garlic. I really can't sing. I hate it when things are misspelled to look cute ( here's looking at you Kwikmart). I don't like bacon or potato chips and I could do without avocado, all of which apparently is really odd.
You should message me if
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If you're funny and creative and upbeat. If you're a reader and a thinker with an open mind. If you are thoughtful and kind and are willing to go on adventures.