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26 M Cambridge, MA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 23–26
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:50am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I was born in China but moved to and grew up in the Boston area since the age of four. Somewhere in between are four years in Providence, three years in Michigan, a summer in NYC, and a summer in HK.

I really enjoy good food and like exploring hole in the walls as well as walking around the city. I also like socializing and meeting new people but partition some time for myself to relax and ponder about how to live my life. A recent product of thinking has been a spontaneous trip to Toronto planned for December (the same kind that made me take a trip to Paris while booking the flight 10 days in advance).

Also, I'm a bit of a competitive and really enjoy the thrill of a challenge and winning. I play a lot of games whether card, board, video, or sport and briefly considered playing poker full time after graduating college.

For the record, I'm very much INTJ and also very straightforward/blunt and honest with my opinions.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm employee numero tres at a small investments fund and am living the dream of doing what I am passionate about with people that I like. The only downside is that I'm the only person under 30 and therefore need to put in extra effort to meet new people (hence okc, you can also find me at some meetups!).

I'm also building my collection of food photos which make me happy no matter what. Something about swiping from pictures of cupcakes to pork buns and macaroon towers makes me happy on the inside. Yea, I like to discover good food a lot. Life is too short to eat bad food.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Working with numbers. I am the guy you ask "soooo how much do I tip for 18%?".
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not the first thing, but a lot of people that I've spoken to say my maturity level is way beyond that of my age range... until they actually know me xD
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I definitely prefer quality over the actual genre or activity. More recent favorites include:

Book: Competition Demystified, Ender's Shadow

Movies: 500 Days of Summer, Devil Wears Prada (this one really hits home), Inception, Serenity, Nausicaa. I basically like almost anything with Ellen Page or Joseph Gordon-Levitt in it.

Shows: Some of my favorite shows are Sherlock, Suits, and Dollhouse. Joss Whedon can take my time and money without even trying. I also like anime (Kill la kill, Madoka, FMA).

Music: My taste in music ranges from some classical to top 40 to Asian pop. I could just list them but why not just link some favorites instead?
Katy Perry - I actually don't like most of her cover songs
Coldplay - Friend in college introduced
Nausicaa OST - Specifically the excerpt starting from 45s
Rainie Yang - I have been listening to her for a decade now
Fish Leong - This song really gets me
Wanting - Went to her concert last year

Food: I like all different kinds of food but have a slight preference for Asian. Some places I frequent more often are Taiwan Cafe, Bon Chon, and Dumpling Cafe. Also have had Ethiopian, Persian, and Brazilian etc. I have a list of restaurants that I want to go to and am always open to new suggestions. I have a spreadsheet of places I've been to and places I want to go to in Boston. Yes I'm that dorky.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends - They have gotten me through the roughest times in life. I am truly appreciative.
Internet - I don't even know where to start on this one.
Phone - This is how I'm connected and don't get lost (thank you GPS technology).
Coffee and lots of it - Pay to extend your day? Why not, especially if it tastes good.
Good food - I live for this. I take a lot of food photos.
Ramen - So easy to make and so good
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be the best at my trade
My next meal... and the one after that
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching tv, out drinking with friends, dota 2, board games (Dominion, Agricola, Puerto Rico, etc.), movies.... or making my wallet cry with too many clicks on amazon or banana republic. I go out or stay in depending on the week.

I think the right people matter more than the activity.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm totally afraid of heights. Woke up at 8am to be on the first elevator up in the Willis Tower but didn't even take a photo standing on glass. My 13 yr old brother had the last laugh on that one.

I was a former expert DDR player and could complete one 10 foot song at my peak. This is on my long list of unmarketable life skills.
You should message me if
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you're interested in eating soup dumplings
you like to check out hidden local restaurants
you want to know how I lost 35 pounds in 6 months
you prefer talking in person at a coffee shop or restaurant instead of online
you actually read this giant wall of text

Although we can all make a laundry list for what we would like out of a significant other, the only two that I require is for that person to be good-hearted and honest. Interests and appearances can change relatively quickly (like mine), but innate personality and values usually stay for a lifetime.

I'm really happy with how my life is right now and am open to anything additive including friendship. Yes I've made a platonic friend on here before. It can happen!