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31 Philadelphia, PA Trans Man

Trans Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25-45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 10
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Im visiting Portland for a few days. My friend is working some, and I might enjoy a sweet date from a local. A hike or lunch? I've been working over two weeks straight and would love some queer human contact, somewhat physical in nature would be especially to my liking, trade back rubs anyone??

I'm a crafty, musically inclined artistic, vegetarian, wanna-be jack-of-all trades, martial artist. (I think that sums up enough to give a picture). I am a very open-minded individual, poly-friendly. I'm a bit shy. I am honest, kind-hearted, and stubborn. I don't know what I'm looking for specifically, but it has been a while since I have had a local date/romance/love affair/fling/in-person flirting thing so that might be nice. I am a transgender man, so if you are not into that, that's cool. I just like to be up front about that to avoid any awkwardness later.
What I’m doing with my life
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Right now I am working a lot, but it feels satisfying. I am a musician in my spare time when I can find it, mostly singing and piano with a bit of guitar. I spend a lot of time looking at and admiring the trees as well as my fellow human beings.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
things involving the use of my hands: shoulder rubs, sign language, origami, crafts of all sorts (sewing, knitting, crochetting, etc), playing instruments, painting, drawing, boot blacking, doing dishes, cleaning

Finding things that are lost.

The first things people usually notice about me
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These days, certainly NOT that i'm trans, which I am still not used to having to come out over and over again, or that people just never know...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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sci-fi books and movies and tv shows. anne mcCaffery, ursula le guin are two of my favorite authors. Don't watch much TV these days.

I love singing music of all sorts, balkan and georgian music, shape note music.

I can listen to Jeff Buckley for hours.

I love pesto, (basil makes its way into everything I cook...), but I think my top food choice is pizza. YUM! But I am always up for some good Indian food. Yum yum!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
head rubs (especially after a fresh haircut)
nutritional yeast
clean underwear/socks
martial arts
my hands
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
human beings. threefold social order. reincarnation
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Studying, playing the piano, being artistic, dancing, sleeping.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a huge phobia of public restrooms, and even bigger one of locker rooms at the gym.
You should message me if
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any of the following apply:

You are awesome.
You like having/meeting queer friends.
You are drama free.
You like crafts.
You like playing instruments/singing with others.
You like to go to the movies.
You like to spend time in nature.
You like to climb trees.
You recycle.
You are a vegetarian or friendly.
You like to play board/card games.
You like to write letters.