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30 M Decatur, GA

I’m looking for

  • Bi guys and girls
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jun 6
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a kinky, crafty, musically inclined artistic queer, vegetarian, wanna-be jack-of-all trades martial artist trans*man. I am a very open-minded individual, poly-friendly (I have a few out-of-state-dates myself. Corresponding via letters is one way to my heart.) I'm a bit shy and am not aggressive with getting my way. I am honest, kind-hearted, and stubborn. I don't know what I'm looking for specifically, but it has been a while since I have had a local date/romance/love affair/fling/in-person flirting thing so that might be nice.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Still trying to figure that one out. For now I have the best job ever working at my martial arts school where I have been training for a few years. It really is an ideal job. Combines teaching, physical movement and a spiritual foundation. And who doesn't want to kick and punch things and get paid for it!

I walk and bike a lot.

I like to learn new things, preferably in a class setting.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
things involving the use of my hands: shoulder rubs, sign language, origami, crafts of all sorts (sewing, knitting, crochetting, etc), playing instruments, painting, drawing, boot blacking, doing dishes, cleaning

Finding things that are lost.

Being single. (though I think it is time for me to not be such an expert on that...)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
These days, certainly NOT that i'm trans, which I am still not used to having to come out over and over again, or that people just never know...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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sci-fi books and movies and tv shows. anne mcCaffery, ursula le guin are two of my favorite authors. Don't watch much TV these days.

I love singing music of all sorts, balkan and georgian music, shape note music.

I can listen to Jeff Buckley for hours.

I love pesto, (basil makes its way into everything I cook...), but I think my top food choice is pizza. YUM! But I am always up for some good Indian food. Yum yum!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
head rubs (especially after a fresh haircut)
nutritional yeast
clean underwear/socks
martial arts
my hands
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to improve my spin hook kick.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a huge phobia of public restrooms, and even bigger one of locker rooms at the gym.
You should message me if
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any of the following apply:

You are awesome.
You like having/meeting queer friends.
You are drama free.
You like crafts.
You like playing instruments/singing with others.
You like to go to the movies.
You like to spend time in nature.
You like to climb trees.
You recycle.
You are a vegetarian or friendly.
You like to play board/card games.
You like to write letters.