If you message me and I notice that your questions indicate you aren't interested in open relationships or polyamory, I'm unlikely to message you back. I'm here to meet new friends and folks to play with. Maybe I'm a sort of sexual anthropologist or sex artist. I'm a sex-positive feminist. I'm also pretty well queerios.
I live in the world's smallest apartment with the world's best cats in the world's loveliest downtown park neighborhood.
If I could have anyone with me on a car trip, it'd be Reggie Watts, and all of our fast food stops would be based on what foods I wanted him to sing about.