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bopinit

43 / M / Straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

His Details

Last Online
May 13
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Transportation
Income
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hello,
I live in the Chicago area between Midway and Summit, IL.

Ive recently started a new job that has me away from home and out of state at least 2 weeks at a time. Im definatley open to long distance romance and get togethers when Im in town.

I consider myself intelligent, easy going, but yet focused and intense when need be - I dont procrastinate. Im caring, sympathetic and empathetic. Im somewhat opinionated but not closed minded.

I have an offbeat, but not overly sarcastic sense of humor; love irony but hate double standards. Political correctness is ok for the workplace but I mostly have no use for it.
What I’m doing with my life
I like live theater, free music fests during the summer, dinner/show/dancing, comedy clubs, bowling, shooting pool, darts, mini-golf, air hockey, wine tasting, casual dining (cant stand pretentious "fufu" restaurants) camping, hiking, bbq'ng, bonfires.
Thinking about getting back into photography.
When the weather's decent, I head out to Lake Katherine off Harlem ave, put on my headphones and walk.

I work out a few days a week and eat healthy-except for Saturdays..then I indulge!
Im not a thrill seeker - no skydiving, bungee jumping, etc.
I have this weird aversion to dying horribly. ;-)
I’m really good at
Listening, (pretending to listen, lol), giving good advice (whether solicited or non), I've been told (more than once) Im a REALLY good kisser - Of course I humbly agree.. ;-)
I enjoy making that special someone feel cared for. I can be annoying when I feel like messing with ya - usually if I'm winning at some board game - Lol...
While I cant cook an egg over-easy to save my life, my scrambled ROCK - I also make an ass-kickin' Lasagna!
The first things people usually notice about me
How approachable I am and my sense of humor. A few people said my lips - one was a gay guy - hey, a compliment's a compliment! lol..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Mostly anything including rag mags (love the crossword puzzle in the National Enquirer!) I read in spurts - def' not a bookworm.

Movies - HUGE fan of movies! I own a portable projector and an 80 inch screen - If you have a huge bare wall it can project up to a 200 inch image - Its like being at the movies - Just add popcorn!

Music - Mostly anything - very little rap and hip hop. Just keep the industrial/head banging noise away!

TV - Big Bang Theory, Two & A Half Men, Rules of Engagement, Whitney, Mike & Molly, American Horror Story, Game of Thrones, Bates Motel.

Foods: American, Italian, Mexican, Chinese, Seafood, Greek, Thai
The six things I could never do without
Dark Chocolate, Sex, Root Beer, Movies, Car & Great Pizza.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My diet, exercise, creative sex, lifes bigger picture & the random evil crap God allows.
On a typical Friday night I am
If Im not holed up in a motel in some state, Im at home watching a movie, ordering takeout, kicking back with a cocktail or out with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The ending of Titanic & The Bodyguard chokes me up! Lol.. :-P

The naughty stuff can be pretty much figured out reading my Q&As - ;-p
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–52
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have a sense of humor ..too many times women state they want a man that makes THEM laugh..well that's fine, but I also want the SAME. ;=) And if your humor is ALWAYS being a sarcastic smartass, Im not interested.

Down to earth, part time dorkettes, drama free, movie lovers (all types) are welcome to message me!
If you can accept the fact Im out of town for at least 2 weeks at a time and we can only see each other 2-3 days every few weeks..

High maintenence, high strung, designer label princess types need not apply.