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25 M Madison, WI

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:23am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Poorly), C++ (Okay), LISP (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a product of Western New York. Born and raised in Buffalo, school at the University of Rochester studying Computer Science, Psychology, Art, Spanish, and Dance (No, I wasn't a quintuple-major, although that would be awesome...though I am the only CS/Psych double-major I've ever heard of).

I'm a dancer(ballet, jazz, modern, hip-hop, ballroom, latin, social, bellydance, west african...the list goes on), martial artist (Capoeira, Tae Kwon Do).

I can be painfully honest at times, especially if I know you can take it. I don't believe there's a point in anything else. I'll respect you much more if you just tell me, good or bad. Fear of rejection and fear of failure are no longer in my vocabulary.

If you're into Myers-Briggs, I'm an ENTP, but the T/F and P/J can vary based on the test/my mood
What I’m doing with my life
My day job is working as a User Experience Designer and Web Developer. I also spend time in a handful of hobbies including ultimate frisbee, curling, and homebrewing among others.

Dance is also a major part of my life. I'm a member of two professional dance companies (Kanopy and Madison Contemporary Vision Dance)
I’m really good at
writing awkward OKCupid intro messages....

listening, problem solving, creative thinking, dance, talking, critical thinking, retro video games, paying attention to detail, being blatant/honest, helping people, entrepreneurial things, user-centered design
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't watch TV, but I am a Sabres and Bills fan. I read a book called "Born to Run" and it changed my life. Books about design and/or psychology are generally a hit.

I like most foods/styles of food. Spicy is always good. I've yet to find one type of cuisine I don't like.

Music? Queen and the Barenaked Ladies are some of my all-time favorites. I have sort of an eclectic music's not uncommon for me to listen to Jazz, Capoeira music, Techno/House, and Oldies all in one sitting.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why people do things they do. Why we're built the way we are. Why we think the way we think. How society functions. Why do we like certain things. Where humans/life/consciousness came from. How could I be doing better right now. The psychology of human sexuality. Sex (let's be honest, if this isn't on your list you're probably lying).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
isn't very private. I'm a very public, open person. Ask me anything. But, to appease the OKCupid gods, here're a few things that probably wouldn't come up in conversation:

I still play Pokemon and watch Dragon Ball Z every now and then

When I was younger I used to never pee standing up for some reason

I usually bite my fingernails as opposed to using a nail clipper

I chew on my pencaps

(I'll add more as I think of them)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if're willing to make the first move, as I'm usually only on to answer messages.

...anything I've said is interesting to you, or if you like what you see, or if you'd like to hear more. bike to school/work/as your primary mode of transportation, especially if you do so through the winter, too.