Eccentric, loud, feminist (what you believe about us is imho likely to be wrong), can be ranty. Rants can be cut short with administration of coffee or a genial 'shut up will you woman, I need to get a word in'. I'm a very friendly but very detached person who needs a lot of downtime (usually reading my collection of obscure books...or just pottering around doing domestic stuff badly) but also love to do this with a companion if one happens to be around. And if they want to go off somewhere else and come back later that's fine too.
I talk too much, no doubt about it. Feel free to talk over me or tell me to shut up (nicely, I would prefer that) as per above.
My disclaimer about no random sex messages appears to have worked somewhat. I only get about 2 such messages a week. The last two were from 'women' (allegedly). Here is a sample:
'hey babe can I have ur num my man is Asian tall thin and a big dick we are wild and need a wild female to join us xx send me ur mobi or do u want mine xxx'
If you would never send a message which in any way resembles this, that's a good start.
By the way, no I don't want a picture of your cock. Thanks.