amorous, communicative, and passionate
My self-summary Propose an edit
i'm typically wearing seafoam green, and for myers-briggs fans: i'm
an ENFJ. i think, talk, laugh, write constantly. i love engaging
with people, i put a lot of energy into my relationships, including
but not limited to partners/lovers/etc; my friends and family are
amazing and important. i juggle a full life of projects, trips,
socializing, etc. while trying to live as balanced as possible.
What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit
living in the Bay and loving it, while staying connected to / spend
time with loved ones elsewhere in the states & in europe.
my work = paid and unpaid political organizing; independent
non-profit consulting; teaching sociology, theology, and sex ed for
under/grads.
i love my work, but after finishing a grad program i'm prioritizing
the other loves of my life: biking, hiking and swimming; hanging
out with kids; cooking and eating delicious food with friends;
gardening; indulging in the occasional TV show infatuation;
theater; creatings things ranging from zines to clothing; and
having as many adventures as possible, which i don't want to
relegate to "vacation" periods in my life alone.
I'm really good at Propose an edit
once upon a time: Shotokan karate - but those nunchuck skills are
rusty now
currently: baking/assembling fruit tortes, traveling, the game
"Set"
always: Saved by the Bell trivia
The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit
tall. talkative. freckle in one eye.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit
books: zines of all kinds, anti-racist politics and theology,
octavia butler, david sedaris, "in the time of the butterflies".
all-time favorite book: "momo", by michael ende who also wrote "the
neverending story".
movies: goodbye lenin
tv: lost & the office
food: avocados, always. potatoes are an integral part of my
culture. pasta and seafood dishes of most kinds = dreamy. i crave
olives constantly. crazy about thai food. huge fan of food in
general.
The six things I could never do without Propose an edit
walking places, backrubs, celebrity gossip (less serious, but i'm
still hooked), speaking German, my niece and nephew.
I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit
the meaning of time. the fate/direction of humanity. my next nap
and/or snack after a long day.
On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit
laughing, talking, wheat beer in hand. company & location vary.
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit
my favorite smell is manure.
You should message me if Propose an edit
we have common interests; you're fun, adventerous, passionate about
something/s; somehow socially, politically, spiritually, ethically
minded; you enjoy spending time with lovers/partners and have
meaningful, important things in your life beyond that as well.
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My personality awards
Questions She Cares About View all
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- Do you have a problem with racist jokes?
- · Yes
- · No
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- Is it ever okay to hit your child so hard it bruises or leaves a red mark for several hours?
- · Yes
- · Yes - on the butt or other harmless area
- · No
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- If it comes to having children, would you prefer to adopt or to be one of the biological parents?
- · I would rather be one of the biological parents.
- · I would rather adopt.
- · Either would be equally fine.
- · Neither - I'd prefer to not have children at all.
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- Kids are ...
- · FUN!
- · the future
- · annoying
- · taking attention away from me
Tests She's Taken View all
| Title | Her Result - female | Your Result |
|---|---|---|
| Title | Her Result - female | Your Result |
| The will you ride me Test | 89 compatibility | Take it! |
| The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test | the Helper | Take it! |







