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amorous, communicative, and passionate

My self-summary Propose an edit

i'm typically wearing seafoam green, and for myers-briggs fans: i'm an ENFJ. i think, talk, laugh, write constantly. i love engaging with people, i put a lot of energy into my relationships, including but not limited to partners/lovers/etc; my friends and family are amazing and important. i juggle a full life of projects, trips, socializing, etc. while trying to live as balanced as possible.

OkCupid: Now in German!
Mist, jetzt habe ich mich als Deutsche angemeldet. Ist ja nicht so schlimm, aber ich kann es nicht ausschalten und muss jetzt im Profil was schreiben.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

living in the Bay and loving it, while staying connected to / spend time with loved ones elsewhere in the states & in europe.

my work = paid and unpaid political organizing; independent non-profit consulting; teaching sociology, theology, and sex ed for under/grads.

i love my work, but after finishing a grad program i'm prioritizing the other loves of my life: biking, hiking and swimming; hanging out with kids; cooking and eating delicious food with friends; gardening; indulging in the occasional TV show infatuation; theater; creatings things ranging from zines to clothing; and having as many adventures as possible, which i don't want to relegate to "vacation" periods in my life alone.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

once upon a time: Shotokan karate - but those nunchuck skills are rusty now

currently: baking/assembling fruit tortes, traveling, the game "Set"

always: Saved by the Bell trivia

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

tall. talkative. freckle in one eye.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

books: zines of all kinds, anti-racist politics and theology, octavia butler, david sedaris, "in the time of the butterflies". all-time favorite book: "momo", by michael ende who also wrote "the neverending story".

movies: goodbye lenin

tv: lost & the office

food: avocados, always. potatoes are an integral part of my culture. pasta and seafood dishes of most kinds = dreamy. i crave olives constantly. crazy about thai food. huge fan of food in general.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

walking places, backrubs, celebrity gossip (less serious, but i'm still hooked), speaking German, my niece and nephew.

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

the meaning of time. the fate/direction of humanity. my next nap and/or snack after a long day.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

laughing, talking, wheat beer in hand. company & location vary.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

my favorite smell is manure.

You should message me if Propose an edit

we have common interests; you're fun, adventerous, passionate about something/s; somehow socially, politically, spiritually, ethically minded; you enjoy spending time with lovers/partners and have meaningful, important things in your life beyond that as well.

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bostobay: 346 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
N/A
Drinks
N/A
Drugs
N/A
Religion
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
N/A
Income
N/A
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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