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33 M Boston, MA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:05am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
To make this a little more fun, I've decided to list up at the top here some things that I'd normally put in the "The Most Private Thing I'm Willing to Admit" section. Not quite a "self-summary", but hopefully it'll prevent your eyes from glazing over:

- I have a slight addiction to sugary cereals. I eat them dry for dessert.
- I'll read and watch anything that has a vampire in it.
- When I wear a watch, it's on my right one told me it's apparently meant for your left wrist.
- I am enamored with Elizabeth, tween-love-for-Bieber enamored. I don't know why. It's a little weird.
- The idea of making two trips from the car to the apartment makes me cringe, leading to toppling stacks of boxes and/or dozens of pounds of bags whose handles are cutting into my palms.
- Under "Religion" I was going to put Netflix, but that wasn't in the drop down menu.
- I sometimes hum softly to myself when I'm not paying attention. It's led to awkward looks from coworkers.
- When I'm watching a movie, particularly a scary one, I let out yelps and sometimes exclaim "oh no!"
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I graduated from graduate school (which, when you say out loud, kind of sounds like the scene in Austin Powers where he declares "allow myself to introduce...myself") a little over 3 years ago. I was down in Atlanta getting an MS in mechanical engineering, with a focus on sustainable energy technology development. I'm now working at a research and development company designing, building and testing laser-based sensors. Not quite what I went to school for, but I hope to pursue projects within my company that will be more sustainable-energy related in the coming years.

Outside of work, I typically enjoy pastimes that emphasize relaxing, rather than exertion of effort. Some (most) guys on here list the requisite "I also like to climb mountains on the weekends", whereas I enjoy organizing my pocket change and watching prerecorded evening news broadcasts (Brian me!). I'm always trying to get outside for a run when the weather permits, and out onto the slopes in the winter. Hopefully I'll get onto the beach a lot more this summer, as I'm a RI native, and all but grew up on the sandy shores. I'm also a fan of Bikram yoga, but my nonexistent trust fund forces me to scope out deals to local studios, limiting my ability to regularly attend classes. Otherwise, I enjoy tennis, reading (I'm in a book club...quaint, right?), tinkering with electronics (laptop fixer-upper), and avoiding house chores.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-forgetting people's names
-parallel parking
-working with my hands in a MacGyver-like way with whatever's around me to get things to "just work"
-watching awesome (crappy) TV
-popping my ears without need for gum (it's one of my only innate skills)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm good at making eye contact. Co-workers have told me I look like Agent Cody Banks. I'm still trying to determine how I feel about the comparison.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have to go on the record here: should people really place much importance on this section for dating purposes? I mean, aren't we all influenced by our peers when it comes to the next book we're going to read, or the next show/movie we're going to watch, or food we're going to try? My theory: there isn't much in this section that will indicate dating compatibility...perhaps just some conversation fodder. In fact, I look forward to meeting guys who have very different interests, so that there's a diversity from which to learn new things about the other person, and perhaps discover things that I never knew I liked. However, I'll go ahead and list my favorites. Just promise me you won't *not* email me if you happen to have an aversion to Alanis Morissette.

Books: The Time Traveler's Wife, The Historian, The Ax, the Harry Potter series, Admission, Sum, the Hunger Games trilogy, Wool: An Omnibus, Command and Control.

Movies: Contact, Sunshine, Once, the LTR Trilogy, Forgotten, Gravity.

Shows: West Wing, Meet the Press, Downton Abbey, True Blood, American Horror Story.

Music: Top 40 (Adele, Britney, Nicki Minaj, Beyonce, etc), lesser-known "prime time show soundtrack"-y stuff (Andrew Belle), Lilith Fair fare (Tori Amos, Alanis Morissette, Chantal Kreviazuk, Sarah McLachlan), cool people music (Kaskade, Basement Jaxx), and John Denver (what?).

Food: pizza, lasagna (and anything with tomato sauce), mac & cheese, reubens, Pinkberry, Cinnamon Toast Crunch.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
- my family
- my car (or any car...I just like being mobile)
- an Apple product of some kind
- a piano
- music that makes me sing like I own it (my poor steering wheel...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Current events; politics; my professional goals (i.e. trying to save the world just a little bit through science); eating healthy; why I should be in bed but I'm not; my two nephews and my new little niece.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting together for dinner with friends, or driving down to RI to spend weekend time with my family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I try to grow a beard, I look like I've been exposed to radiation.

(FYI, I give serious points to people who actually answer this question...if you say "Well then it wouldn't be private, would it!", picture me reaching through your computer screen and hitting you on the back of the head).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are within 5 miles of Boston (no really, Google map it), you don't smoke, you match my age range, you actively think about your health, and you laughed at any point while reading this.