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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26-42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:25am
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I just moved to Providence after being a Bostonian for 12ish years. Hoping to meet interesting, kind new people down here.

To make this a little more fun, I've decided to list up at the top here some things that I'd normally put in the "The Most Private Thing I'm Willing to Admit" section. Not quite a "self-summary", but hopefully it'll prevent your eyes from glazing over:

- I'm so into efficiency, I tend to drink my vegetables via blender. (Have you ever blended a normal-sized salad and witnessed how little volume the resulting liquid occupies at the bottom of a glass?)
- I'll read and watch anything that has a vampire in it.
- I'm a bit of an Apple fanboy.
- The idea of making multiple trips from the car to my apartment makes me cringe...which leads to toppling stacks of boxes and/or dozens of pounds of bags cutting into my palms. (I admit, this is a clear and embarrassing departure from my earlier claim to adore efficiency)
- Under "Religion" I was going to put Netflix, but that wasn't in the drop down menu.
- I will judge you based on speling and grammer mistakes, so proofread your profile.
- I sometimes hum softly to myself when I'm not paying attention. It's led to awkward looks from coworkers.
- When I'm watching a movie, particularly a scary one, I sometimes exclaim "oh my!" or "don't go in there!". I've tried to stop, but I've found it's as controllable as snoring.
- If you have a picture in your profile of a dog licking your mouth, I don't think we'll be a match.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I graduated from graduate school (which, when you say out loud, kind of sounds like the scene in Austin Powers where he declares "allow myself to introduce...myself") a little over 5 years ago. I was down in Atlanta getting an MS in mechanical engineering, with a focus on sustainable energy technology development. I'm now working at a research and development company designing, building and testing laser-based sensors. Not quite what I went to school for, but I hope to pursue projects within my company that will be more sustainable-energy related in the coming years.

Outside of work, I typically enjoy pastimes that emphasize relaxing, rather than exertion of effort. Some guys on here list the requisite "I also like to scale mountains on the weekends", whereas I enjoy organizing the Tupperware cabinet and watching Bill Maher to laugh about the week's news. I'm always trying to get outside for a run when the weather permits, tennis when it's sunny, and out onto the slopes in the winter. I'm also a fan of Bikram yoga, but my nonexistent trust fund forces me to scope out deals to local yoga studios, limiting my ability to regularly attend classes. Otherwise, I enjoy reading (sci-fi, fantasy, and post-apocalyptic future fiction), tinkering with electronics (laptop fixer-upper), maximizing my nutrient intake with my new blender, learning all I can about things I don't know from a combination of NPR and documentaries, and avoiding house chores.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- parallel parking
- forgetting people's names
- recognizing a person just by their voice (comes in handy while watching animated films).
- working with my hands in a MacGyver-like way with whatever's around me to get things to "just work"
- watching awesome (crappy) TV
- popping my ears without need for gum (it's one of my only innate skills)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I make a lot of eye contact.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have to go on the record here: should people really place a lot of importance on this section for dating purposes? I mean, aren't we all influenced by our peers when it comes to the next book we're going to read, or the next show/movie we're going to watch, or food we're going to try? My theory: there isn't much in this section that will indicate dating compatibility...perhaps just some conversation fodder. In fact, I look forward to meeting guys who have very different interests, so that there's a diversity from which to learn new things about the other person, and perhaps discover things that I never knew I liked. However, I'll go ahead and list my favorites. Just promise me you won't *not* email me if you happen to have an aversion to Alanis Morissette.

Books: The Time Traveler's Wife, The Historian, The Ax, the Harry Potter series, Admission, Sum, the Hunger Games trilogy, Wool: An Omnibus, The Ocean at the End of the Lane.

Movies: Contact, Sunshine, Once, the LTR Trilogy, Forgotten, Gravity.

Shows: American Horror Story, West Wing, Meet the Press, Downton Abbey, True Blood, almost any TEDTalk.

Music: Top 40 (Adele, Britney, Nicki Minaj, Beyonce, Demi Lovato, etc), lesser-known "prime time show soundtrack"-y stuff (Andrew Belle), Lilith Fair fare (Tori Amos, Alanis Morissette, Chantal Kreviazuk, Sarah McLachlan), cool people music (Kaskade, Basement Jaxx), and John Denver (you heard me!).

Food: pizza, lasagna (and anything with tomato sauce), mac & cheese, reubens, Pinkberry, Cinnamon Toast Crunch.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
- my family
- my car (or any car...I just like being mobile)
- an Apple product of some kind
- a piano
- music that makes me sing like I own it (my poor steering wheel...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Current events; politics; my professional goals (i.e. trying to save the world just a little bit through science); eating healthy; why I should be in bed but I'm not; my two nephews and niece.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting together for dinner with friends, or furthering my relationship with Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've decided all my underwear is sub-par, but it's really difficult to justify paying more than $10 for a 12 pack. Currently on the hunt for the "perfect pair".

(FYI, I give serious points to people who actually answer this question...if you say "Well then it wouldn't be private, would it!", lighten up!).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You don't smoke cigarettes
- You match my age range
- You have a light-hearted (and don't rely on sarcasm) sense of humor.