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45 Seattle, WA Man


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  • Ages 30–45
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Mostly vegetarian
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
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Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am moving back to Seattle in February, but here's my archived profile:

I came to Cody, WY for the outdoors. I work as a field biologist, cozying up to nature and learning new things. I prefer to get around on my feet whenever possible.

My favorite romantic excursions include lying in front of a crackling fire, keying out sedges... taking long moonlit walks on the beach, contemplating marine algae... and taking in mountain views, while trying to keep my wildflower collection from blowing away. I've been called a plant geek but that's just a limited way of seeing. A lot of things are more beautiful the closer you look.

I love dance (doing, watching, the idea of it) and have a pretty serious contradance problem. I find dance gypsies irresistible, not necessarily as romantic partners but for having the courage to build a life around their passion. I’m looking for someone looking for a creative journey, a woman with some life experience, a joyful heart, wonder for the natural world, and the wit to keep it in perspective.
What I’m doing with my life
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Why does everyone say they can't dance? If you're thinking that much about how you look you're doing it wrong.
I’m really good at
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Overthinking, giving perspective, teaching what inspires me, plant identification, massage
The first things people usually notice about me
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Depends a lot on context... I have a wide range of interests and can be equally immersed in the flow of a dance or the complexity of a flower. One looks like shyness and the other like abandon, but they have more in common.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: Men's Journal, Maxim... kidding... I enjoy naturalist writers like Barry Lopez, Annie Dillard, Edward Abbey, and Aldo Leopold; creative writers like E.L. Doctorow, James Galvin, Arundhati Roy, George Saunders; and poetry by Mary Oliver, Charles Bukowski, W.S. Merwin, and Robert Frost. Also psychology and science. I'll read any story well told.

VISUAL: I haven't owned a television in years but I get my fix from occasional Netflix reruns of The Office (UK & US) and Arrested Development, which I can watch over and over. Some of my favorite movies are Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind, Sex and Lucia, The English Patient, Once, Deja Vu (UK), Vanya on 42nd Street, Lars and the Real Girl, Dogma, Amserican Beauty, Life of Pi, Lemony Snicket, The Apartment, The Girl in the Cafe, or almost anything by John Sayles, David Mamet, M. Night Shyamalan, Pedro Almodovar, Quentin Tarantino, or Sam Mendes. I like improvisation, live drama, and documentaries.

MUSIC: I listen to a lot of contradance tunes, my favorites being the Syncopaths, Perpetual e-Motion, and the Great Bear Trio, mostly unknown outside of contra circles. I generally love fiddle tunes, bluegrass, folk, instrumental, and any rhythm music. Winners in the singer-songwriter and roadtrip categories are: David Gray, Greg Brown, Adele, Andrew Bird, Wilco, Iron & Wine, Tom Waits, Mark Knopfler, and Robert Earl Keene.

FOOD: Curries are almost too good to eat. Pesto and dark chocolate also rank highly. I like spicy ethnic foods for their flavors and dreams of other cultures. Though I've relaxed my standards while in Wyoming, my diet is mainly vegetarian-pescatarian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(could you have one without the other?)
Love of all kinds
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I'm supposed to learn from _________. Lately I've been thinking a lot about priorities and how to reconcile or choose between them, which can be an unpleasant requirement if you have two hemispheres, a heart and mind, or are human. I try to reconcile rather than eliminate, but somtimes there's no way around it. I also think about how evolution might be behind this.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Phinney Neighborhood Center Community Hall (Lower Building)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was a bike messenger for part of my misspent youth. Of all the great jobs that was a favorite. It wasn't me that ran over your toes.
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You picked up on the grammar errors but got over them
You don't have a favorite sports team
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