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37 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:41pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Arabic (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am just returning to the Bay Area after living on the East Coast for six years. I am excited to experience the vibrancy and changes of the area and look forward to the positive perspective of the Bay.

I walk the line between being a culturally savvy city girl and romping in the country. My humor can be a bit crass and I hope it stays that way. I strive to do no harm. While it's absolutely impossible to achieve it keeps me honest and critical.

I've spent time in the Middle East, and traveled in South and Central America, a few countries in Africa, the Caribbean and Europe. I love to travel and hope to do more of it over the coming years. I recently left the UN to work in corporate social responsibility. I am looking forward to seeing how international affairs can play into my work out here and to learn more about impact and tech. Though, ultimately work is not my top priority right now.

I enjoy painting, dancing, cooking, design, art, live music, philosophy, long talks, the ocean, mountains, monkeys and to laugh. My grandfather ate everything with a knife. I come from humble beginnings and that humility has stuck with me. While confidence is cool, arrogance bores me. I am interested in dialogue versus monologues. Integrity is important to me.

Over the past few years, I've spent time redefining what I want from a relationship. While I am interested in new friends, I hope to develop a meaningful intimate relationship. I am ready to build something with a person who is ready for depth and longevity. I would like to explore having a family soon.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working to be as passionate about my personal life as I am about my work. Making more room in my life for me and the people I care about. Being creative and trying to make the tiny section of the world I inhabit better.
I’m really good at
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Reading people, understanding the root cause of things, geo-political debates, compassion and communicating.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My "positive" energy. Friends often describe me as "sexy" and "smart."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read the NYT and a variety of online news sites and magazines. I love creative non-fiction. Arundati Roy's, God of Small Things, is a favorite. I was moved by Nelson Mandela's autobiography. I am trying to get into novels more.

I love jazz, world beat, experimental music, funk, classical and some classic rock and roll. I am terrible with the names of bands.

I love to experiment with cooking and enjoy hosting dinner parties.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to live a meaningful life and not take it for granted. The limitations of the human brain, empathy, writing, intimacy, my niece, traveling, being better with my money, yoga and Buddhism, sex, how fast time goes - memory. The political landscape and what leadership and service mean. Beauty.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinks, dancing, movies, a show or home occasional road trip to the woods. Traveling.
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