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38 / M / Straight / Available

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
Other
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I wrote this a long time ago, but it is still mostly right. * I'll try anything twice. * I am empathetic. * I sing. * I voraciously study human nature and consider perception to be my greatest strength. * I love to dance. * I observe. Always. * I enjoy traveling. A great way to see Vietnam is on a bicycle. * I am highly analytical, but not judgmental as a result. * Intelligence and education are important to me. Perception and genuine kindness are more so. * I miss Max, my Labrador Retriever from high school. * I listen. I make and maintain individual friends, not circles of friends. * I read a lot. * I communicate. * I suffer from an addiction to board games. * I try to be selfless. I am ambitious. These are not mutually exclusive. * I'm a runner and rock climber and look like one. * Others' happiness makes me smile. * I am a creature of the night, but love the sun. I get little sleep. * I have more women friends than men. * I love San Francisco, but temporarily moved to London anyway. Then I moved back. * I am a realist. I am also an idealist. I recognize the difficulties of that combination. * I love the sun. I don't like parking. * I enjoy playing my piano and love communicating music through my conductor's baton. * I am kind. * I love technology and innovation, but only in the context of a broader end. * I am sufficiently politically inclined to have started political organizations. * I have too many interests. * I am honest to a fault.

I'm in a relationship but I'm always interested in meeting interesting new people. Ideally, I'm looking for someone honest, genuinely kind, energetic, passionate, open, creative, brilliant, curious, and kinky. I seek someone who understands my perspective and can challenge it. But mainly I just enjoy meeting and developing relationships with interesting new people.
What I’m doing with my life
Living in San Francisco and enjoying all of the above.
The first things people usually notice about me
Smile, eyes, and then that I have far too many interests.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
a) The Baroque Cycle, by Neal Stephenson; Grover and the Whole Wide World Museum, by Grover; The Road to Reality, by Roger Penrose; b) The Silence of the Lambs; L.A. Story, c) anything but country, currently have an addiction to Prokofiev, Medtner, Shostakovich and Radiohead d) chocolate!
The six things I could never do without
Music (especially my piano), a love of learning, good Vietnamese, great friends, open and empathetic perspectives, and great uninhibited sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The present, friends, organizational management, thinking, sex, piano, the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing anything from hanging out with friends to climbing, to playing piano, to reading, to sitting at home with a movie, to cooking, to....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm willing to answer any question, but only if asked and only if the person truly wishes to know the answer.
I’m looking for
  • Girls
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex