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51 / M / Straight / Single

Springfield, New Jersey

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
As a person I like to think of myself as confident but not overly. I understand that there's a time to give and be loving and understanding. I also believe in standing up for what I believe and not being walked on. I'm always there for my friends and loved ones. I don't run from adversity. I care what people think of me because I believe in being the best I can be. I want people who come across me to think "hey what a good guy." It's not about attention for me. It's about the importance of ones own honor and respect for those around him.

Family has always been my first priority but now I am factoring in my own happiness too. I have love and affection to spare (it is incredible how much we really hold in reserve). I give 100% to everything I do. I am forthright and honest in my dealings with people.. I expect the same in return, which is only fair. I am a giver and unselfish, and always have been this way, but would like to receive as well.

I love to work out and have been making it to the gym 3 or 4 times a week. I also cook and keep a healthy diet and lifestyle. I am a Whole Foods junkie....

Lately I have been reading up on eastern philosophy and religion and find the concepts and practices fascinating.

PS. Is it just me or do others find there is a "new math" being applied to the age of people? I am more comfortable if someone just discloses their actual age, as credibility questions creep in when we learn later that it simply is not true! Beauty, intellect, and vibrancy are what count for me.... just thought I would get that "out there"
What I’m doing with my life
Living each day to the fullest and enjoying family and friends...
I’m really good at
cooking...sports...getting things done..being affectionate.. being a parent... bringing order from chaos
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile, confidence, intellect
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I loved The Timekeeper, and would read anything by Jo Nesbo; Asian, Creole, Italian, Indian, and anything organic

Men of a Certain Age, Seinfeld, and anything on Animal Planet (not sure why but love that stuff!)

Classic rock, jazz, classical, country... anything that is art has potential for quality
The six things I could never do without
kitchen, exercise, passport, family, music, good coffee, GPS, spel chek
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can improve as a person....Finding my bliss
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–52
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You want an honest, affectionate, committed and warm man.