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boyish-charm

43 / M / Straight / Single

Felton, California

His Details

Last Online
May 23
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
Working, Parenting, Chilling. Enjoying life. There are a lot of fun ways to relax when the work is done. I enjoy getting outside for bike rides, hiking, and beaches. Sometimes it is nice to get out of town and check out museums, restaurants and events in the city. Also recently rediscovered the joy of dancing, especially to live music. And yes, we should go dancing on our 3rd or 4th date....

Another pastime is hanging out in the coffee shops and then wandering the aisles of a bookstore looking for something good to read. There is never enough shelf space or time for all the great books, but that won't stop me from buying more. And journaling. Must write in the journal because it is spiritually grounding, plus I will finish that volume of poetry someday soon.
What I’m doing with my life
Living & loving it. Teaching, Writing, Researching, Reading, Biking, Cooking, Tasting, Listening, Learning, Contributing, Growing and Exploring, among other pursuits and interests.
I’m really good at
Creating interest, excitement & engagement in traditionally "boring" subjects such as economics or civics. Catching spiders and releasing them into the wild backyard. Cooking lavish breakfasts on the weekends.
The first things people usually notice about me
They think a big hollywood movie star just walked in the room. Um, I don't know, who is that dork?

Seriously, dimples.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love great music, and am open to all genres. Will listen to any music that stirs the spirit, and dance to any music with a great beat. But my musical tastes have always been informed by less-commercial acts with a punk/alternative/independent edge. Too many bands & performers to list here, though lately it's been Jack White, U2, NOFX, John Hiatt, Los Lonely Boys, Incubus, Jack Johnson, Nina Simone, beastie boys, Michael Franti, Bob Marley, Dinosaur Jr, tribe called quest, Madeleine Peyroux, Emmy Lou Harris....

Not much of a TV person, but PBS is a favorite for cooking with Jaques Pepin & Julia Child, travel with Rick Steves, history with Ken Burns and documentaries with Independent Lens. Also, safe/sane cartoons for my son with the Wild Kratts, and Big Bird. Hooray for public broadcasting.

Recent books include:
Looking at Totem Poles- Stewart
The Heart of the Revolution- Levine
Hard Times Require Furious Dancing- Walker
What's My Name, Fool? Sports and Resistance in the U.S.- Zirin
Hop on Pop!

For adventuring "Mountain Biking Santa Cruz County," and "Day Hikes Around Big Sur," were essential.
The six things I could never do without
Some of the things I can't live without aren't really things at all, love isn't a thing, nor is my son. Though coffee makes the list.

1) My son and our antics and adventures
2) All of the wonderful friends in my life
3) Coffee, books, journals
4) Tolerance, Patience & Forgiveness
5) Mother Earth
6) Farmers Market
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Our solar system. Tomorrow's lesson plan. Vast wealth inequality in the US. What to prepare for dinner tonight.
On a typical Friday night I am
Preparing for a weekend with my son, going out to hang with friends, or chilling at home watching a movie or a Giants game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't like football, hunting, or monster trucks.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You think we might have common interests and/or a connection.