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38 San Francisco, CA Man


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  • Ages 23–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Apr 18
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Open relationship
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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I'm a progressive. I'm a vegetarian. I believe in single-provider health care, the abolishment of the death penalty, and consensus building. I can't stand cars and love bicycles. (Lately I'm mildly obsessed with motorcycles as well.) I compost. I believe that we all have a civic duty to each other and our communities. I volunteer time for and spend money on causes I believe in. I think Libertarians are irresponsible tools.

I work hard to be empathic, and I maintain relationships with people that disagree with me. I'm still trying to understand why a childhood friend voluntarily served two tours in Iraq.

I'm a romantic, but in the Gatsby sort of sense rather than the Danielle Steel one. I think "Wonder Boys" is one of the greatest films ever.

I'm not religious about anything. I like the gnostic idea that the serpent was the good force. I think gender stereotypes ruin all the fun.

I'm an existentialist. This does not mean that I see the world as some sort of horrible, meaningless mechanical progression of physics. Instead, I see it as an amazing, meaningless, and beautiful canvas on which we layer even more beautiful and amazing meaning.

I believe in responsibility. I have a dog, and I want kids some day. At the same time, I hope I never really grow up. Peter Pan all the way. I don't ever want a two-car garage, or a white picket fence. I don't want to be a patriarchical, father-knows-best asshole. Life is messy and fucked up and imprecise and I love it that way.

I am playful, rebellious, and immature.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to help bridge the digital divide.
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And the first one tore a picture / Of a dead and hanging man / Who was kissing foreign fishes / That flew right out from this hands / And when I put my arms around him / I felt the blushing blood run through my cheeks / And an eeriness surrounded when his tongue began to speak / And he said...Oh boy you are so pretty / Enough to wrap tight in rice-paper string... / And when I finally kissed him the whole world began to ring


If you close the door, the night could last forever / Keep the sunshine out and say hello to never / All the people are dancing and they're havin such fun / I wish it could happen to me / But if you close the door, I'd never have to see the day again.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When I'll be able to run again.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I want to have Kimya Dawson's baby.
You should message me if
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You help people. You do something you're passionate about. If you've figured out how to do both of these in equal measure at the same time, I'm jealous.

You're queer and/or poly. You're okay with the fact that I already have a primary partner (the insanely yummy simplyhessler).