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38 • San Francisco, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–52
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 6:02pm
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Leo, but it doesn’t matter
- Open relationship
- Has dogs
I work hard to be empathic, and I maintain relationships with people that disagree with me. I'm still trying to understand why a childhood friend voluntarily served two tours in Iraq.
I'm a romantic, but in the Gatsby sort of sense rather than the Danielle Steel one. I think "Wonder Boys" is one of the greatest films ever.
I'm not religious about anything. I like the gnostic idea that the serpent was the good force. I think gender stereotypes ruin all the fun.
I'm an existentialist. This does not mean that I see the world as some sort of horrible, meaningless mechanical progression of physics. Instead, I see it as an amazing, meaningless, and beautiful canvas on which we layer even more beautiful and amazing meaning.
I believe in responsibility. I have a dog, and I want kids some day. At the same time, I hope I never really grow up. Peter Pan all the way. I don't ever want a two-car garage, or a white picket fence. I don't want to be a patriarchical, father-knows-best asshole. Life is messy and fucked up and imprecise and I love it that way.
I am playful, rebellious, and immature.
If you close the door, the night could last forever / Keep the sunshine out and say hello to never / All the people are dancing and they're havin such fun / I wish it could happen to me / But if you close the door, I'd never have to see the day again.
You're queer and/or poly. You're okay with the fact that I already have a primary partner (the insanely yummy simplyhessler).
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