Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First things first - (nb. read at least the first couple of
paragraphs before you judge what I'm saying here!)
Are you attractive?
Do you have a nice body?
Are you intelligent?
Are you a good person?
I don't much care for the objective answers to the first two
I'm not even too concerned with the third. But I do care about your
own subjective view, because the chances are, if you like yourself,
then I will like you too. I don't really mind what you are into, or
what you do for a living, if you like it and I'm interested in you
then I will find it interesting. I don't care what you wear or
where you like to hang out. I don't care where you are from, what
mistakes you have made, what colour your hair is, how old you are,
or anything else for that matter. That said - nobody is perfect, so
if you can't see any room for self improvement then . . . best be
Felt like I needed to get that off my chest - its how I see the
world and a big part of how I interact with people. I love to have
my knowledge of the world stretched.
Now onto less serious stuff :)
Hi! I'm Ben.
I want to meet some new and fun people outside of my current
friendship groups, and it would be nice to find someone to hang out
with near me!
I know myself and my own mind, but I'm always open to new ideas or
the viewpoints of others. I'm a pretty chilled, laid back kind of
person for the most part.
I am looking mostly for someone to 'date' - as in literally take on
dates. I'm also looking for new friends. I seem to be getting
endless invitations to events and fun nights out but never have
anyone to go with. So if you like the idea of being taken out every
once in a while then drop me a line - (I'm a big fan of women who
aren't afraid to make the first move!)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working too hard as a contractor at McLaren. Most of the time I
love what I do, but it's pretty long hours, hopefully they will be
coming down a little soon!
I just moved to a lovely place in Wimbledon with a gorgeous view
and splurged on the nicest sheets I could find, and I'm loving my
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Maths, Physics and science in general. The universe still blows my
mind, even after four years trying to get to grips with it full
time. I studied Physics at Oxford, so I'm happy to talk about it
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies; Likes: Explosions, Romance, Comedy, Love, Tragedy,
Suspense, Monsters, Aliens, Scary shit, Cute things, Superheros,
I fucking love the minion films. Don't judge!
Dislikes: Stupid amounts of violence. Bad plots. People who are
noisy in the cinema.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Oxygen, water, shelter, food . . . . Ok we all get the joke. Aside
from the necessities for life - friends, family, a goal (yes - like
a 'life goal'), music, sports and freedom (oOwwwwww the cliché!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the hell it is that I've forgotten to do...
How to get more time off.
What to do with the time I do get off!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends in some context.
There's no such thing as a typical Friday night though! I sometimes
attend events like KSL and TG. I sometimes need a quiet one to
myself. I'm still confused about the whole 'netflix and chill'
thing. I really do like to watch netflix and chill!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You follow through. I don't mind if you're looking for casual,
serious, friendship, aren't really sure or just have some really
random want or desire, just don't be flaky. If you say you are
going to do something - do it! If that's you then go ahead - shoot
me a message :)
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