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bpj101

53 / M / Gay / Single

Jersey City, New Jersey

His Details

Last Online
May 9
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 7″ (1.71m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
—
Offspring
—
Pets
—
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Real Man Seeks a Real Man
A Real Man who knows who he is; knows what he wants, and goes after it fearlessly. Sex might be the first thing, but it's definitely not the only thing. Be unafraid and more interested in my head above my heart than the one below it. I prefer mild to wild.

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What I’m doing with my life
Live my life and be happy doing it.
I’m really good at
Most things I choose to do.
The first things people usually notice about me
My arrogance, but then they move past that and learn to like me any way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Guns, Germs and Steel
The six things I could never do without
My happiness. The other five are just a waist of time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life's plan for me.
On a typical Friday night I am
A good movie alone or a drink in a bar. Either is a good way to flush the past week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have no regrets.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 38–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
If what you've read about me here honestly excites you as someone you'd like to get to know.