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36 Dallas, TX Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 29
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 3" (1.61m)
Body Type
Full figured
Atheism but it’s not important
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), German (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I believe in open, honest, egalitarian relationships.

I believe no matter how close two people become, they are always individuals.

I believe every relationship requires equal amounts of honesty and respect on the part of both individuals or the relationship will eventually fail.

I believe no amount of common interests will overcome differences in life philosophies.

I believe 90% of the people who read the above statements and agree with them will agree with them in theory and not practice.

I am a person who constantly chooses my values and consciously lives them.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a constant work in progress. I don't believe in stagnation. I set goals for myself and I achieve them. I am continuously working toward becoming a better version of myself.

Consequently, I'm the best me I can be every day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm best at conversation. I love to talk and I love to listen. I frequently hear the phrase, "I can't believe I just told you that, I've never told anyone that."

I also have a long memory and am a highly intuitive person. When I get to know you, I *know* you. Some folks like that, some are scared by it. Which are you?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get a lot of comments on my smile. People frequently stop me in public to tell me how beautiful my smile is...because I have dimples?

Personality-wise: I'm a pretty positive and upbeat person. I don't like looking at the negative side of things because I feel it's a waste of my energy, which could be put to better use enjoying life. I only have the one.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.

I like to be entertained. I'm not a critic, I prefer to enjoy most things for what they are. There are a few things I mostly avoid, but even then there are exceptions.

I'm also not a fangirl. If something excites me, I might attend a release party or opening night, but more likely I'm there because someone I love is a fan.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the Universe, and Everything.

Seriously, though, I think a lot. I spend my days in thought. When I'm too tired to focus on the task at hand, I'm just thinking.

My preference though, is to think about my life and what I'm doing with it. I like to keep myself on target for ultimate enjoyment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out with friends or at home resting up for the rest of the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm willing to admit pretty much anything.

I mentioned up above that I'm honest to a fault and I'm not kidding about that one.

The fastest way to earn my respect and admiration is to both be a truth teller and be able to hear the truth. If you're not firmly rooted in reality, I'm not interested.
You should message me if
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Thing that would be helpful to know about me in advance: I'm solo poly (no primary relationship) and a Relationship Anarchist. Those two together mean I do not pursue romantic or sexual relationships. I pursue connections with other human beings and let the relationship develop wherever chemistry and mutual desire takes it.

Drop me a line, if the chemistry flows, it will be what it will be.

Tell me what's amazing about you!