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bra1ny1

35 F DeSoto, TX

My Details

Last Online
Aug 15
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.61m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo
Education
University
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Poorly), C++ (Poorly), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The two most important things one should know before one messages me...

I'm polyamorous--no, this doesn't mean I'm an easy lay, in fact I'm more discriminating now than I've ever been. I do have a partner that I'm committed to.

Also, I have kids--they are some of the most beautiful people I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. For anyone interested in being part of my life, this is important, as even if you never meet them, much of what I do is informed by their existence and participation in my life.

If either of these statements put you off, read no further because these are permanent fixtures of my being and have no chance of ever changing. Even if I were dateless, I'd still be polyamorous.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Every day, I do the same thing with my life as I did the day before...I live it. Everyone says they want to live their life to the fullest, I actually work to do so. This doesn't mean that I don't have a routine, like a job, etc. but it does mean I will spontaneously blow off work to spend time with friends who are visiting from out of town or who have the day off when I don't. I've only got the one life...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm best at conversation. I love to talk and I love to listen. I frequently hear the phrase, "I can't believe I just told you that, I've never told anyone that."

I also have a long memory and am a highly intuitive person. When I get to know you, I *know* you. Some folks like that, some are scared by it. Which are you?

Also, because it seems to be a theme on these world wide interwebs, allow me to disclaim: I do not Google folks. I will know nothing about you prior to meeting you other than what you've told me. If we know folks in common, I will not ask them about you. For me, getting to know people is like watching a movie, I want to know as little as possible before I experience it first-hand.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get a lot of comments on my smile. People frequently stop me in public to tell me how beautiful my smile is...because I have dimples?

Personality-wise: I'm a pretty positive and upbeat person. I don't like looking at the negative side of things because I feel it's a waste of my energy, which could be put to better use enjoying life. Again, I only have the one.

Folks also tend to notice that I'm a very goal-oriented and driven person, just not about the typical things...achieving my dreams? Yes. Are my dreams anything to do with making a gazillion dollars a year or owning a house? No.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Yeah...

I like to be entertained. I'm not a critic, I prefer to enjoy most things for what they are. There are a few things I mostly avoid, but even then there are exceptions.

I'd rather watch a bad action flick than a good romance.

Romance movies leave me yelling at the screen, "Just tell him/her how you feel! Quit being such a moron!!"

And then to my compatriots: "If people would just learn to fucking communicate..."

I don't like romance novels on the whole, but I've been caught reading historical romance and sci-fi/fantasy romance as well. On my bookcase is the complete Discworld collection, several Daniel Quinn's, Stephen King (mostly only short story collections, he's a little too verbose in his novels for my taste), Jeff Deaver, Kathy Reichs (though I haven't actually read any yet), Neil Gaiman, Ayn Rand, and a smattering of non-fiction in no particular category, just whatever interested me at the time.

I'm also not a huge fan of country music, but I own a Shania Twain album. Contained in my most oft listened to playlist is Queen, Enya, Apocalyptica, Vampire Weekend, Mozart, The Beatles, Michael Jackson, several songs from the "Once More with Feeling" soundtrack, Michael Franti, P!nk, Dayplayer, and many others. I hope this gives a good idea of my broad interests.

In television, I've found I'm drawn to shows which feature a highly intelligent lead character; think Big Bang Theory, Bones, Doctor Who, Law and Order: Criminal Intent. I don't have cable and I don't follow shows on the internet, though, just DVDs and Netflix.

Weeds and Dexter also make me laugh like crazy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love
Life
Laughter
Fun
Discovery
Touch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the Universe, and Everything.

Seriously, though, I think a lot. I spend my days in thought. When I'm too tired to focus on the task at hand, I'm just thinking.

My preference though, is to think about my life and what I'm doing with it. I like to keep myself on target for ultimate enjoyment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out with friends or at home resting up for the rest of the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm willing to admit pretty much anything.

I mentioned up above that I'm honest to a fault and I'm not kidding about that one.

I've learned to be a little evasive on some questions, but if I think you can handle the truth, I'll tell it. And then recently I heard the phrase, "Asking me a question is consent to hear the truth," and I like it, so I'll probably be sticking closer to my primary philosophy of tactlessly answering questions. ;-)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
The mood strikes you. Be sure to ask me a question if you want a reply...I love to answer questions. Especially when I have to think on the answer.