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brahmsloverny

55 New York, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:51am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Technology
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, French (Poorly), German (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Me: fun, open, kind, creative, not boring. A classical pianist and sometimes rock-and-roller, a happy cook with a gumbo pot and a backyard grill. My friends would say I'm smart, funny, loyal and honest -- at least that's what friends are supposed to say! I hope your friends would say the same about you.

You: fun, open, kind, creative, not boring. It'd be good if you were attracted to kinda slim, glasses-wearing former academics.

I have a really sharp 13-year-old son, who usually beats me at Scrabble. He recently destroyed me with a 125-point word (ZOOLOGY, using all seven letters in the tray, placed just so -- see photo). He also fakes me out with words that don't exist.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Somehow I went from music professor to software developer, even though I'm more the analog type.

I get involved in local politics. I've moderated a lot of election debates.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sight-reading. Making gumbo. Wiggling my ears.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably that I need a haircut.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Nabokov, Joyce, Pynchon, Murakami, Flannery O'Connor, John Barth, Muriel Spark, Nathan Englander, Richard Feynman, Donald Knuth, Gary Shteyngart, William H. Gass. My son thinks the name Gass is hilarious. Lately I've been reading/rereading Proust, so if you ever want to talk about Proust, I'm your guy.

Bunuel, Fellini, Renoir, Hitchcock, Welles, Bergman, Altman, Kubrick, Herzog, Miyazaki.

Brahms, Chopin, Stevie Wonder, Parliament-Funkadelic, Bach, Beethoven, Neil Young, Thelonious Monk, Verdi, Wagner, the Clash, Al Green, Marvin Gaye, Jerry Garcia, John Coltrane, Nelson Riddle. I was in a teenage pop-punk-funk band that opened for the Ramones.

French, Cajun, Japanese, Korean, the Oyster Bar at GCT, and a lot more. I'll eat almost anything at least once, and usually I like it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air
Water
Food
Books
Music
Sugar-free Cherry Ricolas
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the music in my head.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
edting my profile, apparently.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is already known to the NSA.
You should message me if
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you want to!