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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 30
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey -

I'm Brian.

Here’s the basics:

- South City
- Beard, yes. Hipster, hell no.
- I'm a Sapiophile, GGG, no negging or drama.
- Gentleman: doors held open, even car doors; including for my platonic female friends.
- Superhero power level sarcastic, often funny. Sometimes hilarious or annoyingly tolerable.

- Whiskey (Jamieson), wine, and most beers no
- No food chains and I can cook
- Dive bars, yes. Wine bars, yes. Jazz clubs, yes.
- The Grove, yes. Clubs, maybe. Clayton, ok. East side, meh.

- Memberships at MoBot, SLAM, Stray Dog, and Blast Fitness
- Cardinals, good. Blues, good. I enjoyed the World Cup this year. If you're a fan, I'm there. But, I don’t own Pro sports clothing or know the stats for the ‘87 Cardinals.
- More shows, concerts, and events per month than I should admit. This also includes: music shows, musicals, plays, burlesque, Artica, and the occasional French film.

- Excessive outdoors enjoyment: Hiking, kayaking, yoga, stand-up paddle boarding, just for example.

As far as everything else, let’s leave that to real life conversations. Anyone can fake online flirting. Since most communication is non-verbal, I prefer to meet soon rather than later. Usually just a week night happy hour or something easy for either one of us to duck out if we’re not feeling it.

Huge bonus points for being able to do a 5k, drinking whiskey, holding up your end of a conversation, knowing Vancouver Sleep Clinic, and keeping up with me on a normal weekend. ;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...finding new events and activities. I like to have fun and explore the city.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm not sure you could have favorites. There is too much diversity to enjoy, especially at different times and moods.

I will list a few:

Evil Dead (movie and the musical,) Book of Mormon (the musical,) Anything at Stray Dog theatre, Chasing Amy, The Godfather, Good Fellas, Pulp Fiction, Fight Club, STL Shakespeare Festival, Lindsey Stirling, Forest Gump, High Fidelity, Foo Fighters, The Who, Hood Internet, Citizen Cane, The Front Bottoms, Yo Yo Ma, Life of Brian, Mitch Hedberg, Chris Rock, Hannibal Burress, Cardinals. Whitney, Grim, True Blood, Hurt, Seether, Sarah Jane and the Blue Notes, Bacon, Pizza, Sushi, Doctor Who, NPR, TED talks, Citizen Cope, Kim Masse, most good Jazz.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
insert cliched crap here and then figure out so many woman can't live without chapstick
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Karma and why I'm not living on a beach yet. Also, when I'm going to Machu Picchu or Rome.

How I can be a grown man and still have to use: lol, lmao, :) :P and such in texting and messages.

Honestly, my profile pics... I have no lack of confidence as far as my appearance, but I can never seem to get pics right. Then again, if you didn't like them I doubt you've read this far.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends on the week, usually unwinding from the work week.
You should message me if
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You want to. Besides, I probably messaged you first ;)