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  • Ages 25–45
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My details

Last online
Oct 5
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t want kids
My self-summary
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First of all, if I message you and you reply with something like "No thank you" or "I'm not interested," I will simply write back to you, "Okay; thank you for taking the time to write back to me" or words to that effect. I will not do as it seems a truly dishearteningly high number of men do (online, and in real life) and try to argue you into going out with me (who thinks that's going to end well?) or berate you with vicious invective, insults, slurs, threats, etc. I think that kind of douchebaggery being so common is probably why most women on these kinds of sites don't feel comfortable taking the more direct approach to turning down a guy, because no matter how politely or tactfully they convey that, it's always traversing a minefield because they never know if the guy is going to go full asshole on them or not, so they just don't reply at all. I hate guys who pull that shit and who have created this toxic and pervasive atmosphere of fear where women don't even feel safe freely expressing themselves. All people should feel (and be) safe in expressing themselves. Decency should govern all people's interactions; but sadly, it seems, "basic, common human decency" is not nearly as common as it should be.

I believe in the interconnectedness of all anti-oppression work because the intersectionality of oppression requires us to fight all of it all at the same time. Racism, sexism, classism, speciesism, homophobia, biphobia, transphobia, etc. are all interconnected like interlocking puzzle pieces, and therefore when doing anti-oppression work you can't make social progress in one area (like animal rights) at the expense of another (setting back women's rights), which is a lesson I really wish PeTA would learn.

I'm an ethical vegan (to the point where I would not seriously date a meat-eater), I teach high school English (including a Sci Fi class), and I read a lot. I enjoy all kinds of movies, hiking, walking, cooking, talking about current events, history, philosophy, politics, etc. I believe in working for animal and human rights. I'm an atheist. I'm pretty complicated and I find it difficult to sum myself up in a few paragraphs. I've written a sci fi novel that I have yet to get published. I'm not particularly materialistic. I enjoy karaoke, board games, and social satire. I have a wonderful, supportive family, great friends and co-workers, and I love the Pacific Northwest.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm teaching kids and trying to support every good cause I can to make the world better for human and non-human animals, including protecting the environment. I'm trying to increase my own knowledge of the multiverse every day and be there for my family and friends to help and support them in any way they need. Also, I am having fun, as you can see from these videos taken on the almost-last-day of my semester-long Sci Fi class when we had a Sci Fi dance party:
and as you can see from this lip synch performance:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drawing, paper mache, writing, teaching, conversing about things that matter to me, cuddling/snuggling, holding hands, kissing, sex, making simple yet delicious vegan meals, making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've had a few people tell me my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Too many to list, but a sampling would be:
Books: The Phantom Tollbooth, Diet for a New America, the Harry Potter books, anything by Stephen King, Alice Walker, John Steinbeck, or Mark Twain, I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings, The Lone Ranger and Tonto Fistfight in Heaven, Black Boy, The Great Gatsby, Fahrenheit 451, Their Eyes Were Watching God, Death by Black Hole, Lord of the Flies ...
Movies: The Blues Brothers, The Goonies, Star Wars (original trilogy), Star Trek franchise movies, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Get Low, Mr. Smith Goes to Washington, Mr. Deeds Goes to Town, Dr. Strangelove, A Nightmare on Elm Street (original), Halloween (original), The Woman in Black, The Color Purple, Sleepy Hollow, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Once Upon a Time When We Were Colored, One False Move, Iron-Jawed Angels, Aliens, Kingpin, Philadelphia, The Joy Luck Club, The Truman Show, The Matrix, Cloud Atlas, Playing By Heart, Better Than Chocolate, Like Water for Chocolate, Close Encounters of the Third Kind, E.T., Raiders of the Lost Ark and Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade, Edward Scissorhands, Roger & Me, Capitalism: A Love Story, Primal Fear, Keeping the Faith, Chloe, Meet the Parents, Cyrus, The Dark Knight, The Avengers, the original Spiderman trilogy, Being John Malkovich, The Evil Dead franchise, Bram Stoker's Dracula, Something's Gotta Give, Glory, Bruce Almighty, Monster's Ball, Bringing Up Baby, Monkey Business, And Then There Were None, almost any movie directed by Peter Jackson, Revolutionary Road, Blade Runner, Serenity, Pixar movies, almost anything directed by Wes Anderson or Alfred Hitchcock or Kathryn Bigelow or Joss Whedon or Penny Marshall, Shaun of the Dead, Hot Fuzz ...
TV shows: Jeopardy, The Daily Show, The Nightly Show, The Simpsons, Mythbusters, The Walking Dead, Doctor Who, The Big Bang Theory, Bones, Modern Family, Blackish, Bob's Burgers, Game of Thrones
Food: anything good and veganlicious.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family and friends
Cuteness (kittens, puppies, etc.)
Intellectual stimulation
Sensual and sexual pleasure
Being able to spend time out appreciating Nature
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The human condition
The state of the world
My life: past, present, future
Injustice, oppression, and how to reduce them
The environment
What-if hypothetical scenarios
The people for whom I care and whom I love
The universe/multiverse
The nature of reality
Science and technology
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home, either reading or perusing the Internet (or reading stuff on the Internet) or watching a movie.

However, if I were dating someone who wanted to go out on Friday nights and hit the town, I'd be just as happy doing that. I'm pretty flexible that way. I can appreciate being a home-body but also enjoy getting out into the world and socializing, having adventures. It's all about balance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The reason I left my wife and that we got divorced is because she was verbally, emotionally, and psychologically abusing me and I finally realized she was never going to change.
You should message me if
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you are vegan (or vegetarian), and would be interested in dating me, and/or you are interested in being friends with me.