Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


23 New York, NY Woman


Similar users

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:11pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Christianity and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm pretty much chaos, a tornado of emotions, spread sheets, to-do lists, ambitions and laughter that's just a little too loud. I share my exuberance in full regalia, I hold nothing back once the floodgates are down. I have often been known to send a text message comprised of emojis and exclamation points, followed by a sound political argument for socio economic equality in race and gender and vast improvements on the judicial system. I am not for the feint of heart, but I do love a good night in and reading by candlelight.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for happiness in all the wrong places.

(And also working in arts administration.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Organizing and emails and to do lists and generally work. Also good with emojis and five dollar words and French. I am a pro at cuddles, snuggles and hugs - be warned though, I'm ticklish in strange places.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My awesome specs, of course!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Brave New World, American Gods, Shakespeare. Sometimes Stephen King, always John Green, and never again for E.L. James.

Doctor Who. Veronica Mars. Buffy. The West Wing. Most importantly, Parks and Recreation. Anything half decent off BBC.

Dessa, Marina, Nicki Minaj, Halsey, Bea Miller... You could say I have a thing for boss bitches who know their feminism.

"Stay close to the things that make you feel alive."
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Glasses, a good book, a heavy down comforter, peanut butter, anti jokes, and quality hugs.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the next great adventure is, what the future holds, and how to crush the patriarchy with work boots and killer lipstick.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking with friends or within ~5m of my computer... or asleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I secretly love trying too hard.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a homebody, you're into any of the shows I geek out about, you're playful and still enjoy the simple things in life.

Also, if your first message has a "smooth move" compliment on my looks... there's a 90% chance I'm going to assume you're not interested in what I have to say and would rather just look at me. Which is what pictures are for.