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brazenbonbon

22 / F / bisexual / Single

Swampscott, Massachusetts

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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I am silly, independent, and conscientious.

My Self-Summary

Now I'm back in the Boston area after attempting to move to Berkeley, CA. I wanted an adventure (and better weather)! Bad time to do it, though. I sorely miss San Francisco and the Berkeley craziness, but I am happy to be back with my friends and family again.

I'm goofy and I'm a dork. It's the little things that amuse or excite me.
I'm a really really good friend, and I'm proud of that.
I believe that if you don't learn from your experiences, you won't mature and change as a person. Which is what life is about!

My favorite thing to do is read at cafes that serve good coffee. I'm a bit of a coffee snob, especially after experiencing amazing SF coffee.

I also looooove long drives on a beautiful sunny day with the windows down and singing along to the music. It totally boosts my mood x10.

I can't live without forms of art. I love art museums, architecture, creative writing, beautiful music, theater, the opera etc.

When I get excited about something I get REALLY excited. I'm very much in touch with my "inner child". I think it's really important to not always be a grownup. That's boring, anyway.

There's nothing like a great smile and laugh. I'm an optimist and I love life. I don't like people who whine or talk sh*t about others.

What I’m doing with my life

Adjusting to being back home, looking for a job, and hopefully starting to save up money for my next bout of traveling and/or graduate school.

Going back to my passions and expanding on them, like creative writing, drawing, and reading.

I’m really good at

Saying ridiculous stuff to crack people up and not realizing it.
Being innappropriate/blunt/swearing
Painting.
Spelling and grammar.
Listening.
Driving.
Hugs and kissing.
Cooking, but I only cook interesting things when I'm inspired.

The first things people usually notice about me

My big smile and long, curly hair.
And yes, my boobs.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: The Count of Monte Cristo, Shantaram, Harry Potter, The Birth of Venus, Middlesex, A Thousand Splendid Suns, anything by Augusten Burroughs or David Sedaris
Right now, I'm reading a bunch of books at once, which is what usually happens. I'm rereading the 7th Harry Potter, I started The Mists of Avalon in California and haven't gotten back to it, and I'm reading The Love Children by Marilyn French- about a girl growing up in the 60's/70's and the Vietnam War protests, and general hippie-dom :)

Movies (currently): I'm a huge Johnny Depp fan. Superbad (or any similar comedy- The Hangover, Knocked Up, I Love You Man, Pineapple Express), Across the Universe, Moulin Rouge, Milk, Ratatouille, HaBuah (The Bubble), Slumdog Millionaire

TV: Arrested Development, The Office, Family Guy, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Lost, Glee, Project Runway

Music (currently): Keane, The Beatles, Pink Floyd, Coldplay, Embrace, Led Zeppelin, Radiohead, Bob Marley, Alicia Keys

Food: I hate tomatoes and seafood.
Some of my favorite foods are: pad thai, cheese, coffee, paninis, cucumber avocado sushi, brunch food, greasy chinese, burritos.

The six things I could never do without

In no particular order: Cafes/coffee, friends/family, cheese, a good book, computer, making out/sex
(See how I kind of cheated on this? Haha. I'm not a fan of rules.)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My friends and family
What I'm going to do today, who I want to be, what goals I want to accomplish, where I want to travel next (I've been to Egypt, Italy, Netherlands, Israel, and Turkey in the last year)
Why the fuck is it cloudy?
Sex and... more sex
The next meal
Does God exist?
Why is everyone so repressed?
Trying to figure out why people act the way they do.
The people I care about.

On a typical Friday night I am

Going out for drinks with friends, going away for the weekend, eating dinner with the fam then reading a book, or just hanging out on the couch and watching a movie (pretty much what everyone else does, haha).
I haven't formed a typical Friday night yet!
Ideally, it would include good friends, good food, some weed or hookah, and lots of laughter.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I want to get published someday.

You should message me if

...You're intelligent, able to laugh easily. You're dependable. You're independent. You get excited about the things you're passionate about (hopefully they're things that I'm excited about too).
You don't like playing emotional games.

...You liked my profile

DON'T wink at me or write a lame message with awful grammar. I will not respond! Come on, I know you're better than that!