I don't really self-define as gay, however the limited and restrictive options of okcupid have forced me to. I am an anti-assimilationist queer radical woman. If you feel any of that, wassup!
I'm never sure what to include, and things usually come out wrong or pretentious. I feel that personalities can only partially come through on these sites. If we meet up you'll get the gist, I have a strong personality that comes through almost immediately.
What I’m doing with my life
living it in a way that is happy, healthy, and revolutionary!
I’m really good at
conversation ( a lost art), being honest, being authentic, loving
people, having fun, critical thinking, making people laugh with my
cynical and self-deprecating humor/observations
The first things people usually notice about me
my personality. My dog. my bike.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- Living my Life, Anarchism and Other Essays, Homage to Catalonia, Pedagogy of the Oppressed, how non violence protects the state, the failure of non violence, white teeth, middle sex, Assata, anything by bell hooks, ANYTHING by Richard Wright (specifically, blackboy), Soledad Brother, Blood in My Eye, Conquest, In Dubious Battle, To Kill a Mockingbird, She's Come Undone, and so many more! In general, nonfiction and autobiographies are my shit!
Music- conscious (and not so conscious) hip hop and everything in between from melodic crust to the top singles of the 90s (don't get me on a roll)
Kendrick Lamar, Black Star, Papoose, Load Lux, Lil Boosie, my boy Yo Gotti, Spittage
Crust- Submission Hold, Ballast, Anti-Product
Blink 182 forever and always!
TV- SEINFELD and Frasier ( I don't have a TV so I stay watching reruns online)
The six things I could never do without
My Mom and Sister, books, Aspen, radical critiques, Trees, Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Society, Life, my dog Aspen, the future (but I'm really trying not
On a typical Friday night I am
with one ( or two or three) of my good friends at my house, watching Seinfeld reruns, or reading with a tally of Mickeys at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Unpretty by TLC is still one of my favorite songs
You should message me if
you're honest! confident yet self-deprecating, like to people watch, ride bikes, talk about history, love Seinfeld (i'm obsessed), have your own ideas, are an anarchist, want to talk about/or actively engage in organizing transformative/cooperative spaces for queer women, drink a 40oz with me!