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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
My self-summary
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Greetings. So. What to share?

I value authenticity, kindness, compassion and wit. My guiding principles: accept others as they are, be truthful, help when possible, just breathe, maintain a sense of humor, respond don't react.

I am responsible, but try not to take myself too seriously. I laugh. A lot. I laugh at myself. I will laugh at that guy over there. You are fair game as well. I can typically find humor in the mundane and difficult situations.

I appreciate art and all creative endeavors. Self-expression is a beautiful thing and I'm always fascinated by how individuals choose to actualize it and the courage it takes to then share it with others.

I'm extremely open to learning about others' experiences, points of views, cultures and the like. I don't prefer the approach of "us vs. them"...but rather a "we."

I think it's a good rule of thumb to remember that nothing is ever black or white. I prefer the gray. Be adaptable. Maintain malleability.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a User Experience Designer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, self-deprecating humor, being thoughtful, talking to strangers, eating crunchy peanut butter
The first things people usually notice about me
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I ask a lot of questions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Jitterbug Perfume, Shantaram, In the Heart of the Sea, On the Road, Mountains Beyond Mountains, The Alchemist

Movies: Big Lebowski, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, The Greatest, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, Shaun of the Dead, Swingers, The Three Colors Trilogy, Home for the Holidays, A Christmas Story, It's a Wonderful Life, Love Actually

Shows: Louie, Top Chef, Arrested Development, Property Brothers, Love it or List It, New Girl, Sunday Morning with Charles Osgood.

Music: Broken Social Scene, Plants and Animals, Gregory Alan Isakov, David Bowie, Soul Coughing, Warm Soda, Bing Crosby, Neutral Milk Hotel, Chris Bathgate, The Roots, Soulive, Tapes N' Tapes, Tom Rosenthal, David's Lyre, Motopony, Devendra Banhart, The Leisure Society, Josh Ritter, Wilco, Johnny Cash, John Vanderslice, Andrew Bird, Elvis Perkins, The Bad Plus....I could really go on forever. Let it be known that I really, really, really like music.

Food: I don't like liver and everything else I say..bring it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. music
2. laughter
3. dental floss
4. chocolate
5. travel
6. creativity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to become a better version of myself, how to be present in the moment, how to be authentic, what I will eat next, where I will travel next, playing music
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's not very private, but I attempt to navigate this world with heart, mind and good intentions.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'ve got wit, kindness, compassion for self and others, a good heart, like to travel, like to eat and possess an insatiable curiosity.