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  • Ages 30-45
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Last online
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5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Buddhism and it’s important
Working on Space camp
Has kid(s) and might want more
English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm in pursuit of the beauty in this world for the wonder of it, all this life has to be a product of love.

I'm a full time father and student. Im also working on wildflower photography portfolio.

My music partner and I are now working on our third album were hoping to have it done by January, they keep getting better so I figure why not keep it up right?

I've been told I'm insightful, I often hear things other people dont, you know that inflection of a word, the shift of posture, it all means something, might just be a feeling, but I remembered feelings more than words years after the fact.
What I’m doing with my life
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Its a quest right, this path we are on, discovering rediscovering. I've been lucky in my life to have had a few friends where in the communication was comfortable direct fearless and open to a depth that continued to unfold and expand both in perspective and warmth. I am looking for more that.

I use to build brewery's, packaging lines and brew houses, rebuilt and installed highspeed machinery. Lots of welding and wrenching and wiring and drilling and grinding and bending and cutting and measuring and filing and yes drinking, I loved the free beer spring from Canada to Mexico well San Diego.

I've moved and am now perusing a career in the medical field. I'm going to be a Respiratory Therapy and am looking forward to combining what I have learned in my study of Qi Gong, Tai Chi, Yoga, and Meditation in the hospital setting. It's all about the breath, and how we choose to lesson the suffering.

For the last two and a half years I have been healing from a series of what we're to me very tramatic experience's, sure you can ask if you like, but thank God Buddha Light of Love I feel alive again, my eyes are clear and open washed with years of tears.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing and talking about everything.

Writing poetry, finding and taking photographs beautiful flowers I'm clearly running the risk of sounding like the ashland born hippy I was raised as so I will add that I'm very good at opening cans with a Leatherman, wrestling, and generally kicking ass.

I've recently learned that I am also good at this thing they call schoool. Having lived a relatively outlaw/nonconformist life style for most of my life which I was good at but not that good I've desided my son needs a dad that has a retirement plan!

Oh how things change!
The first things people usually notice about me
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An almost complete lack of fashion cents.

My love of sweaters in the winter, my hat in the summer, my smile and curly hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Loving Kindness by Susan Salzburg is one of the best books on meditation I have read.
Douglas Adams and the Hichhikers Guide
Tom Robins
Ken Wilber
John Steinbeck
I think I have read Dune 4 times and it just keeps getting better.
Enders Game
As cheesy as it sounds I believe Avatar is one of the best movies of our time, I dont know if I will watch the sequel, I hated Titanic with a passion and I dont know if Cam. Has two rabbits in that hat.
I can go off on the symbolism of Cast Away for 15 minutes without breathing
I love creativity that opens the wounds of the world around us, shows us places we forgot, reminds us of glory of love and death until it is all lost in the one "like tears in the rain" what movie is the from?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
eye contact
My son's laugh
Ron Burgundys autobiography "Let me off at the Top"
4WD a smoken hot babe and a pocket full of cash
And the ability to laugh at myself hahahah
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to help, I believe it is all about lessoning the suffering. How to deepen my understanding of love and my self vs. love and life. It's all relations and memories stories of old that hold the self. Like the big L.P said "Don't believe everything you think." So I'm rewriting the story of my life with 40 year old eyes, I'm trying to do it with less fear and brutal honesty, I'm leaning more to love and understanding with intention. Communicating a true desire to lesson the suffering in a world gone a bit crazy, the shit's piled deep

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Right where I am :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Im Batman

I will be moving to Klamath Falls next
Fall for a few years, and then depending on where my son is I may move to Davis or back to the Batcave with my wonder boy Robin!
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You don't need a weatherman to know which way the wind blows