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46 New York, NY Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 34–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 4
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Local native. former ex-pat (in Germany and Guatemala). early riser. very social introvert. experiential learner. nonconformist. avid tail-shaker. belly-laugher. thoughtful, kind and generous.

a bit cynical about the world, but in relationships, a hopeless romantic...
What I’m doing with my life
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I teach history--a fairly recent career switch (4 years ago) from international humanitarian relief work and before that, low-income housing development in NYC.
I’m really good at
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smooth landings.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lit: The Overcoat (by Gogol); A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man; La Nausee; Self-Consciousness (John Updike); The World According to Garp; Dead Babies (Martin Amis); Crabwalk (Gunter Grass); Recapitulations (Thomas Prufer); Despair (Nabokov); The Unexpected Universe (Loren Eiseley); The Great War and Modern Memory (Paul Fussell).

movies: Annie Hall; Mauvais Sang; the Apu Trilogy; Bottle-Rocket; Apocalypse Now; Le notti di Cabiria; Decalogue; The Best Intentions; Shame; Stalker; The Wizard of Oz

music: Radiohead, Daft Punk, Flaming Lips, Can, the Cure, Joy Division, the Clash, Smiths; Madness; Talking Heads, Bowie; U2; CSNY; Neil Young; Mister Sunday mixes; Bach, Chopin, Brahms, Mahler, Sor, Barrios; Aaron Copland.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my work. good friends. good food. good writing. good sex. and the deep, blue sea...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my next travel destination.
how much longer I have til I should just shave it all off.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
with friends or chilling at home.
You should message me if
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you're happy with how your life has turned out so far (and feel grateful about it). you're inquisitive and instinctively kind; you have a bit of a wild are sensual, confident, adventuresome and grounded.