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brendanthomas16

46 New York, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Heteroflexible
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Local native. former ex-pat. early riser. very social introvert. experiential learner. nonconformist. avid tail-shaker. belly-laugher. thoughtful, kind and generous.

a bit cynical about the world, but in relationships, a hopeless romantic...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I teach history--a fairly recent career switch (4 years ago) from international humanitarian relief work and before that, low-income housing development in NYC.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
smooth landings.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lit: The Overcoat (by Gogol); A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man; La Nausee; Self-Consciousness (John Updike); The World According to Garp; Dead Babies (Martin Amis); Crabwalk (Gunter Grass); Recapitulations (Thomas Prufer); Despair (Nabokov); The Unexpected Universe (Loren Eiseley); The Great War and Modern Memory (Paul Fussell).

movies: Manhattan; Mauvais Sang; the Apu Trilogy; Bottle-Rocket; Apocalypse Now; Le notti di Cabiria; Decalogue; The Best Intentions; Shame; Stalker; The Wizard of Oz

music: Radiohead, Daft Punk, Flaming Lips, Can, the Cure, Joy Division, the Clash, Smiths; Madness; Talking Heads, Bowie; U2; CSNY; Neil Young; Mister Sunday mixes; Bach, Chopin, Brahms, Mahler, Sor, Barrios; Aaron Copland.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good friends. good food. good writing. good sex. and the deep, blue sea...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
pedagogy.
my next travel destination.
how much longer I have til I should just shave it all off.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
with friends or chilling at home.
You should message me if
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you're happy with how your life has turned out so far (and feel grateful about it). you're inquisitive and instinctively kind; you have a bit of a wild streak...you are sensual, confident, adventuresome, silly and grounded.