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31 Costa Mesa, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Feb 20
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm a man. I have manners. I show respect. I live on my own. I've worked for what I have. I drive my own car. I have hair on my chest like an adult. I like watching sports but can get over my team losing at an acceptable pace. I grew up in Jersey and I like that. No, not like the show. No, I don't have an accent.

I prefer a good glass of scotch over a 6 pack of light beer. I hold doors for people. My mom taught me love and patience. My dad taught me music and pride. I play guitar but don't make people listen to me. and finally, I much prefer face to face conversation than texting, emailing, or talking on the phone.

Now you go.
What I’m doing with my life
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working as an art director at a marketing agency. playing music. philosophizing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I make the best pancakes you'll ever have. also, speaking fake French.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall, and my beard is red. Plaid shirts make me a lumberjack. Wolf pelts make me a Viking and/or wildling from north of the wall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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book: Into Thin Air, Vonnegut, Here There And Everywhere, how to archer

movie: Jurassic Park, Cable Guy, Independence Day, Multiplicity (Michael Keaton > your favorite actor), The Shining

tv show: Archer, Seinfeld, Arrested Development, The Sopranos, Boardwalk Empire, Fringe, House, Ren & Stimpy, Game of Thrones, Mad Men, x-files, Bob's Burgers, Luther, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, Sons of Anarchy

music: palms, the parlor mob, silverchair, deftones, tom waits, nofx, the allman brothers, manchester orchestra, kings of leon, band of skulls, rage against the machine, j dilla, nirvana, ghostface, jay-z, johnny cash, tool, van halen, pennywise, death cab for cutie, glassjaw, jack johnson, arctic monkeys, sublime, metallica, 311, tool, rhcp, james taylor, mastodon, the mars volta, minus the bear, silversun pickups, head automatica ... etc.

food: breakfast
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
not making lists
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
im hungry.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying a Guinness at a local dive bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i bought a Creed CD once.

proud update: I gave it away as a white elephant gift for the holidays. It was promptly thrown in the trash. Shame. In a way?
You should message me if
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You share the belief that it's perfectly okay for the woman to talk first.