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brettsails

55 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:34pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I find it very difficult to "Summarize" myself, so I'm going to keep this simple, kind of a list I guess, even though that won't give you much of a feel for the things that I love, or my sense of humor (I have a good one, I swear). I'm a self employed Criminal Defense Attorney, a Volunteer Firefighter, and an avid Sailor and Skier. Work is not, and never will be, the focal point of my life. I march to the beat of my own drummer. I haven't driven a car since January 25th, 1987. My last cup of coffee came 7 months later. I've never sent a text, and really don't want to. If I like you enough to want to communicate with you, I'd like to hear your voice. I think Apple is a Cult. I am incredibly outspoken. I have a soft side, but I don't show it to everyone. I like to Bake, and, if I do say so myself, make the best Man Made Brownies on Earth! I eat Breakfast food for Dinner. I have a TV. I can't stand the tone of voice used by virtually everyone who has ever uttered the phrase "I don't have a TV". I like, respect, and very much would like to meet, Healthy, Outdoorsy type women, Independent, Really Smart, Self-Sufficient, and not Overly Sensitive. I find a wide variety of looks to be appealing, but I really love women with a "natural" sort of look. I was like 40 when I discovered that almost all women color their hair. That discovery nearly lead to the death-by-laughter of one of my female friends as she educated me. I'm not a fan of tats or body piercings (although the belly button thing is pretty sexy!) I really don't want to date Princesses, Smokers (I have Asthma, and truly hate smoking), or Republicans. I'm proud to be what I like to call a Rational Liberal, and I just don't want to be with someone who sees the world so differently than I do. At this point in my life I have no interest in drama. I am close to my family. I'm a Native New Yorker, Manhattan born and bred, and to maintain my sanity I own a home on Fire Island, where I spend a tremendous amount of time, year round. I keep a 19' Flying Scot Sail Boat there, and Sail about 50-80 days a year.
The questions they ask you to answer here are kind of silly, but somehow I answered 175 of them! I kept thinking the next one would be the last, but..... They're really no substitute for a real conversation, which is the only way to get to know someone, I think.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE stop sending me emails from Eastern Europe!!! The same for anyone not in New York!! I don't want to be a Dick, but I will never respond!!! I'm really not interested in meeting anyone who doesn't live in NY. Sorry, but it's a waste of everybody's time. And I will not reply to anyone who doesn't have at least one,and preferably a lot more than one, picture. And please don't contact me if you've lied about your age. Massive turn-off. Who does that???

I've already seen the profiles of 4 women that I actually know. Yikes!

If you really want to have some fun on this site, click the Moderation Tab!!! Woo Hoo!!!!

I am funny, interesting, and down to earth, and I value those qualities in a partner.
What I’m doing with my life
Most, but not all, of what I want.
The first things people usually notice about me
That my eyes are a very unusual shade of Brown. Actually, I have no idea. If I knew what people notice I probably wouldn't be single.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'll eat almost anything, except most fish. I love historical fiction, Sci-Fi movies and TV, Americana music, and Jazz from around 1955-65. I can't stand Rap or most Hip Hop, and believe fervently that Rock 'n Roll is the traditional music of My People!!!
The six things I could never do without
1) Fire Island. I NEVER get tired of spending time there.
2) Sailing, which I plan to do till I drop, and Skiing, which I plan to do as long as I can at a high level.
3) My Family and Friends.
4) My Fireplace, which I have spent many beautiful evenings in front of.
5) Service to my Community, which I fulfill as a Volunteer Firefighter.
6) Voting. I do it every year, and have never gotten over the giddy thrill that I felt the first time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing on Fire Island, year round.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm probably not as open to the possibilities of on-line dating as I should be. I need encouragment, ladies :)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You think I sound interesting, and want to meet me :)