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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 49-63
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:47am
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Judaism but it’s not important
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am active and happy. Not into high drama people or stressful people. We all have some issues but we solve them ourselves. Knowing what I can change and accepting what I can't change. Basically desiring a person who wants a partner to share life with and to benefit each other through it all. I only want from you what you truly want to give to me and not a thing more. Let's improve our lives with common goals and smile at each other.
Enjoy the journey of life together. If I write to you I already know our distance and am willing to make the drive to see you a few times a week. My daughters are over 18.
Smile a little more,
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Everything I want to do except some things, it is better to do with a partner to share it. Living my life in a healthy way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Telling the truth as I am a very poor liar! Showing my feelings and asking about yours. Being active, lively and humorous.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is that I look and seem much younger than my actual age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Mastery of Love, by Don Miguel Ruiz. Just saw the: Life of PI, Les Miserables & Lincoln. Some of the other movies I enjoyed in the past was the Sixth Sense, Sound of Music, Schindlers List, Birdman of Alcatraz, Guns of Navarone, and The King and I.
I enjoy most ethnic foods especially Indian, Thai, Japanese etc.
I have a varied taste in music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My three kayaks, my bike, my skis (Nordic and Alpine), my car, my cat and my partner when I finally meet her! The third kayak is a two seater I just bought from a friend. My dog died in June 2014.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to write these emails to strangers in a way to get a positive result from them. It's hard to say the right things to someone who you don't know and they don't know at all. People tend to assume things from their own perspective and often that leads to unintentional realities of the reader. Perception of the reader is the same as hard facts at this point but not to the writer. We base our decisions on our perceptions of others and in this media form our perception of new people is sometimes unrelated and completely different from the real person in reality. It is simply the impression we get from their emails which is more to do with their ability to write and communicate in this fashion than in real life way of two way talking (verbal dialog) and seeing body language etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Right now I have no typical Friday night. However for me, but they are all good!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I really am looking forward to meeting the right person and getting to know her. Wait a second, once I admit it then its no longer private and that takes away the fun of it, right?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Please message of my profile is too long! You are emotionally ready for a real relationship. If you think a few emails and one or two phone calls is all that is needed to decide you want to meet someone. Would rather have a real friend as opposed to just an email or phone friend from this site. Do not want to make pen pals here.
If you need dozens of emails each way, please let me know your intentions as I will not be receptive to that before we can at least talk.
The reason I put my age range as low as I did is because I tend to be more active than people my own age and my health is so important to me. However, someone my age or a little older is great as long as they too are active.
Believe in what you are doing here and that you have the same goal as me in doing so. Must be a happy well adjusted person and have few issues and a lack of high drama in your life. Want to have fun and do things with your partner and you are in decent health, a non smoker or addicted to any substance at all and a happy person in general. Must not be a couch potato but an active person who values how they treat their own body and cares about what shape they are in every day. Follows the golden rule and is not a superficial lady but one with a quality spirits.
If my profile is too long let me know as I can handle constructive criticism and it may lead to a pleasant conversation!😊