Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm in techby day, and a restless soul at night (or, hmm,
considering my schedule, vice-versa). I went to college around
here; after a stint in New Mexico for graduate school, I came back
... I love the feel of the area, and couldn't stay away.
I spend a lot of time in front of my computer, so I'm eager to
explore stuff away from it. I used to dance regularly (swing,
salsa, ballroom, etc); nowadays it's an irregular thing, but one I
still enjoy. I spend a few hours a week at the gym, but go through
cycles about how happy I am at being there.
I keep buying video games but not taking the time to play them. I
regularly run out of space in my netflix queue. I buy books but
know I won't get around to even trying them for months. Pop culture
moves too fast!
I do actually read a lot, but I only have time to do so on weekends
or when I take the train into San Francisco. On those weekends, I
am often curled up in bed reading, or, if the weather is nice, I'll
walk to a park and read on the bench. I try to mix up my reading
genres and different feels of books, but my main focus -- the
section I check at the library and bookstore every time -- is
fantasy and science fiction.
My most watched movie genres are probably comedies, and I have an
embarrassing weakness for romantic comedies. (I would never
describe most of these films as "good", but I'll watch 'em). But
action or thriller movies are great distractions when I'm working
out, and nobody expresses nihilism like French movies. (Or maybe
that's the subtitle authors at work ... my 1-quarter-of-French oral
comprehension is basically nonexistent).
I am introverted, introspective, and cliched
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
In somewhat of a waiting period at the moment. I'm looking for a
more permanent location on the Peninsula, and in a job I like most
days which I've had for a while. I feel like things should change,
but I'm not sure exactly in what direction.
I like trying to 'improve myself', so I periodically go on projects
where I take online courses, try to write a short story a week, and
so on. Some of these projects work out better than others.
I think some days of going back into a phd program.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Various geek things. But in life as in video games, I'm usually not
very good at things to start with, but if I persist at something, I
can get the hang of it.
I'm not great at it, but I do really like dancing. I've done a lot
of ballroom in the past, along with some club dances like west
coast swing and salsa. I don't really like competing in dance
events, though, so not doing a lot with ballroom at the moment.
Socially, I'm mostly doing swing because it's so much about the
dancing and the improvisation.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If it's in a small group on certain (probably nerdy) topics, that I
have opinions, and I'm not afraid to express them. In a larger
group, they'll probably never notice me at all...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I really like summer movies. If I were in charge, the Oscar winners
would be a lot different.
Mulholland Drive (mysterious imagery, beautiful women, makes almost
no sense on the first viewing -- what's not to like?); The Prestige
(perhaps my favorite movie post-2000). Musicals are fun -- I like
all of Rocky Horror Picture Show, Moulin Rouge, and Sweeney Todd.
On the other hand, I really don't like Sondheim's Into the Woods
and I *hate* Carousel.
I read pretty indiscriminately within genre fiction, but some of my
favorites recently read include The Kingkiller Chronicles by
Rothfuss, The Song of Ice And Fire (Game of Thrones, etc) by
Martin, and Catch-22 by Heller.
Every few years I subscribe to some magazines before I realize I
won't keep up with them and let the subscription expire. I'm
currently subscribed to two and ... sure enough, I'm an issue
behind on each already.
Music wise, I generally collect music based on danceability. The
only genres that I typically avoid are rap and opera (both of which
are sometimes good, but too low hit to noise ratio for my
preferences). So pop, r&b, blues, swing are all in heavy
rotation; I also really like folk and neo-folk.
I love burritos and lasagna. I used to really like Thai food, but I
think I overindulged one year and am still recovering ... I enjoy
it, but never seek it out any more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My glasses or contacts. Not a fan of being helpless at a
distance, after all. :)
2. My Internet access.
3. Something to do. I get bored easily.
4. Books. See point 3
5. A placeholder I can use to end a list.
6. Make that two.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Narrative tropes, and how they influence what we do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Even odds between being at the gym, out dancing, and eating out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I talk to myself when I think I'm alone.
You should message me if
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get something off your chest, or, you know, you feel an inner
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