I am in a long-term, open, mutually non-monogomous relationship. I enjoy flirting online, meeting interesting people, and if something more intimate develops, that's great, if not - I hope I have made a sexy new friend.

I spend too much time thinking and not enough time doing, though I still seem to manage to get a lot done.

I love Brighton, and plan to live here for the rest of my life.

I like to think that I'm intelligent without being pretentious, and enjoy a really good conversation which I learn from, rather than just the opportunity to spout my beliefs.

I am smart, playful, and imaginative.

Working; staying up too late and not getting enough sleep; trying to maintain that balance of things I have to do and things I want to so and trying to work out which is which.

Joined up thinking; seeing the positive side of life; cutting through the nonsense.

Survival horror videogames - Silent Hill is my not-very-secret obsession.

Critical theory; knot tying; multidisciplinarity (sp?).

I can guess the plot of most episodes of The Simpsons by watching the beginning bit which has nothing to do with the story.

My high contrast features - like something from a black and white movie on a HD television.

That I look like Jack out of Lost

I am wearing a suit.

In order:

'Less Than Zero' by Bret Easton Ellis, 'Carrie' by Stephen King, 'Crash' by JG Ballard, 'Catch 22' by Joseph Heller, 'The Bloody Chamber' by Angela Carter.

'Brazil', 'Eraserhead', 'Shadow of a Doubt', 'Bitter Moon', 'Raising Arizona', 'Bound', 'Timer', 'Pleasantville'.

'Buffy', 'Friendship is Magic', 'Arrested Development', 'Battlestar Galactica', 'Big Love', 'The Wire'.

The Breeders, Throwing Muses, Talking Heads, Go Team, Amanda Fucking Palmer.

Curry, spagetti, whiskey.

internet access
conversation
oxygen
Brighton
respect
spell checkers

Why birds flying in formation over Brighton peer never bump into each other.

Whether 'opposite day' is a real thing or an invention of American television.

Why OK Cupid bothers to tell me that I am online right now.

Spending the evening with my two children who are awesome. Watching 'The Powerpuff Girls' and 'My Little Pony' and 'Fosters Home for Imaginary Friends'. Eating popcorn and cheesy poofs.

I am pierced in several places, but you cannot tell when I am fully clothed.

I think that PCs are better than Macs.

I think that Barney from 'How I Met Your Mother' is one of the most subversive characters of recent American sitcoms.

You are open minded and in need of some stimulating company.