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brilliantmermaid

48 / F / straight / Single

Long Beach, California

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am inspiration, adventure, and plenty.

My Self-Summary

Mermaid goddess seeks mate for life of love and adventure. Love the sea and be with me!

If there is an opportunity to go boating, I'm there! I want to craft a life with someone whose life is also built around the sea. Cruising, science, sports/adventure, hospitality... these are just some of the ideas. I've boated all my life. I love it! I've sailed but prefer powerboats now. My dream is to cruise around the world on my own boat – without crew. Meanwhile, I’ll settle for the FUBAR! I figure I can comfortably handle a 65 – 70 foot boat by myself and I want to live on the water until I’m 90 ... and then be pried off with a crowsfoot like I was epoxy’d to the deck!

I’ve been exploring marine hybrids, power cats, all kinds of technology. Learning to fish – would really like to expand my experience in big game fishing. I recently watched a Captain back down a 70’er out at Santa Barbara Island so a hook-up could be boated; I want to do THAT!

Boating is the main area you’ll find me “high maintenance.” The other is attention. I want to be the love of someone's life.

I’ve done the big career and found it empty. I found my femininity and love it! I'm looking to share my beauty with a protective, affectionate, commitment-minded man and craft a full and happy life. I'd love that life to include many friends and children/grandchildren - obviously from your side since I missed out on that myself.

I'm a great partner! I’m creative. I'm open to new things. I'm not risk-averse. I'm not "stuff" focused, nor am I plastic. I’m happy!

I'm getting pretty comfortable in my skin and hope you are too! I've matured into self-reflection and appreciate those who have done the same and can identify and articulate their emotional selves. I have little “baggage” from my history and I usually deal with it well – after all, I had/have the courage to change my life and its always better! From the base of an emotionally supportive relationship, everything else will work out!

So, you’ll have to be active, young at heart, neat and clean, adventurous, adept at conversation and quiet, have a good relationship with food, a good relationship with money, want a woman in your life not just on the side.

I'm not QUITE as one-dimensional as this sounds. But Close!
Now in Spanish
Si! Se habla espanol .... MARGARITA!! Muy Margarita, por favor! Cerveza!?? No cerveza, gracias!

What I’m doing with my life

Pursuing creativity. Looking for a life-partner. Practicing joie de vivre. Staying active and trying new things.

I’m really good at

Inspiring happiness in those around me - cuz the alternative is just a DRAG!!

Cooking! I love to cook! Especially at home. For friends! With friends!

Connecting - ideas, people, dots....

The first things people usually notice about me

Pretty. Centered. Sharp (minded, not tongued). Nice.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Too many to list. Truly, it be so long as to cause sleeping!
I know these points are interesting, but really, how much typing can one do?

For books, movies and music, its easier to say that I don’t like anything too hard or harsh.
For food – I don’t respond well to slimy textures like mushrooms (so puree them into soup/gravy), avocados (more for you!!), uncooked egg whites… Its really okay, cuz there is so much more!

The six things I could never do without

Boating
Love
Friends & family (real ones, its the love thing)
A smile on my face
Work (the money is nice)
A great dinner every night (my current favorite salad is a watermelon, radish, mint concoction! Goes great with spicy main dishes and the heat we've been having!)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The power of YES and the beauty it brings.

On a typical Friday night I am

Preferably - on the way to Catalina or beyond.
Fixing a great meal on the boat, sometimes putting wine in the food, and wondering what great things I can "get into" for the next two days!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I aspire to be "trawler trash."

You should message me if

This fits.