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britelad

64 M Medford, OR

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–64
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 21
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
READ THE WHOLE ESSAY:

How is your experience with online dating? Well, I've met some wonderful people online, and I have met some 'NOT so wonderful' people online.

It's difficult at our age to connect with mates as we seem so settled in our ways and the baggage we tend to collect sometimes proves an obstacle that makes it hard to relate. But we continue to seek companionship and love. Isn't that our nature???

I am seeking a woman counterpart in this mystery we call life. Someone who has liberal tendencies like me, open to new ideas and experiences.

The synopsis goes like this:
I am not a Christian, but I am very spiritual.

I am honest and forthright...I ask a lot of questions

I have many interests that are eclectic and fun.

I can be serious and I can be capricious

I drink alcohol on occasion, I like both beer and fine wines. Southern Oregon has some good ones.

I detest smoking of any type

I like the outdoors, but I won't climb Everest or hunt wild animals. Fishing is okay!

I don't run marathons and I don't compete in sporting events.

I did my time on motorcycles and don't really care to re-explore that experience. I am more interested in a motorhome!

I don't have a 'bucket list' and I'm not on some trip to 'squeeze the juices out of life...'

I am seeking someone who is slightly hippie, but can be sophisticated, easy on the eye, not seeking momentary self gratification or thrills. I can embrace the inner-journey, and still do business with ethics.

I have a good job and I'm looking at retirement soon

I do community FM radio for fun

I have artistic and musical interests and tendencies, although I can only dream of being a solid musician.

I am from San Francisco, but I am not gay

I like baseball and soccer

I ride my bike on casual and contemplative rides. I am not a 'Ricky Racer'

I can cook for myself, I can clean after myself, I am very mechanical, but I won't fix your car. Ask me anything about your computer...

I have a degree from a small, private university.

I am communicative and smart

I want to buy a house before I retire. I like small living spaces.

I have all my hair and like it when you put your fingers through it.

I like kissing you, touching you behind closed doors. I like holding your hand as we walk together

I am faithful and when I commit, I'm 'All In'

I have done 'The Work' and realized that it is very complex and never ends. Please don't come at me with the 'steps' attitude or the whole EST like thing. Been there, done that...

Most important, I look forward to learning about you!

Be well.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living in the present, watching the clouds and stars in wonder.

Now is the time to engage the lessons we have learned from age and experience.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am great at so many things, you will be amazed!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically, I still look real good for my age, I have all my hair and teeth, I'm not hanging all over my belt, (okay, maybe a tiny bit)

I have a good sense of humor, I would rather smile than frown.

I have a young attitude, without being pretentious or tragically hip...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies: Usually epics, film noir, mysteries, some action films, classic B&W. Most definitely foreign films.

TV: I don't care to view broadcast TV. I usually watch productions on line. OitnB, GoT's, Boardwalk Empire, Portlandia, House of Cards, stuff like that...

Music: I love nearly all music. I am particularly fond of ambient/electronic (Balligomingo, Massive Attack, Chemical Bros, Dead Can Dance) Classical pianists (particularly Chopin, Satie, Rachmaninoff, Debussey), world music from far off lands (Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan, Frifot, Hamza el Din), most rock (Zep, Dead, CSN) blues (Black Crowes, Albert/BB/Buddy) and jazz (Duke, Louis, Count, Miles, Bird, Coltrane). Pandora is ALWAYS on in my home.

Books: too many to list. Currently into 'Dance with Dragons', the fifth Game of Thrones book by Geo R R Martin.

I made it through the 'self-help' guru phase. I came out in one piece and found that I'm really 'okay'! Yet, I resonate to Eckhardt, Amma, Wallace Black Elk, Alan Watts, Parmahansa, and many more. But, I have the right to disagree with some of those concepts.

Food: I like eating many new and unique foods from all regions of the world. I am particularly fond of Indian and Italian food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-The hugs of my children and grand children
-art/music that expresses the positive spiritual qualities of humanity
-good friends
-the cool breeze blowing in my hair
-learning new ways to see the world
-The soft whisper of my lover in my ear
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
LIFE, which is an incredible phenomenon. It NEVER ceases to amaze me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Whatever suits my fancy ...
Generally out with my wonderful friends from the area. We might be out enjoying a cool beverage or a warming coffee in town.

Sometimes I attend lectures or theater. From California, I'm a bit spoiled on good wines. But So. Oregon has nothing to be ashamed of. The wines here are very good.

I often watch documentaries from 'Thought Maybe' dot com
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't share private things on an open forum.

Okay, one thing: I can't see you close up. So I will put on glasses so I can see YOU!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you don't live too far from Medford, OR

IMPORTANT: If our match percentage is high, and If you have perused the questions and answered a fair amount...

Be relatively healthy and emotionally stable. Be REAL