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44 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 10
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A droll, left-handed, cat-owning autodidact. A Myers-Briggs INTJ,
non-facebook-using gamer. A former creator of reef biotopes and tweaker of organic molecules. A jeans and t-shirt guy who cleans up well.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Marshalling bits during the day, planning my next project at night.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Teasing apart the pieces and putting them back together again.
- Knowing where to build my sentries.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
- Books
I'm always reading.
Fiction: David Foster Wallace (his non-fiction is fantastic too), Cormac McCarthy, Patrick O'Brian, Dickens, Umberto Eco. George Martin made me re-examine by disdain for fantasy. There's some great stuff in that genre after all - I loved Erickson's Malazan Book of the Fallen, Sanderson's Mistborn, and Rothfus' Kingkiller Chronicles.
Non-fiction: I'll always read anything from John McPhee, James Gleick, Richard Dawkins, and Sasha Shulgin. Recent reads: Thinking Fast and Slow - Kahneman, Going Clear - Wright (cults fascinate me), Bailout - Barofsky, Aquatic Systems Engineering - Escobal, Modern Hydrionic Heating - Siegenthaler (needed to get my boiler replaced.)

- Movies
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Chinatown, Alien, Dog Day Afternoon. Generally, anything directed by The Cohen Brothers, P.T. Anderson, Scorsese, Kubrick, Aronofsky, or Christopher Guest. Absolutely terrible movies that I'll still watch when they pop up: Dune, Showgirls, Roadhouse.

- Shows
All time: The Wire, Deadwood, Arrested Development, The Larry Sanders Show, The Sopranos.
Currently enjoying: Breaking Bad, Justified, Louie, Game of Thrones, Mad Men, Stewart/Colbert.
Currently not enjoying: Watching my poor, sad Sabres muddle through another season.

- Music
All over the map, depending on my mood or what I'm doing. Some artists from my current playlist: Tom Waits, Belle and Sebastian, TMBG, Slowdive, The Be Good Tanyas, Bob Wills, Camera Obscura, M. Ward, Magnetic Fields, Beastie Boys, Talking Heads, Stereolab, Rev. Peyton's Big Damn Band, The Charlie Steinmann Orchestra, Bettie Serveert, The Smiths, Devo, PJ Harvey, Massive Attack, Tegan and Sara, Luna, The Rentals, The Vaselines, Ween, XTC, Yo La Tengo, Tosca.

- Food
Yes, please. The variety of food available here is one of the things that keeps me in this city.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Something good to read
- Good friends
- Connectivity
- Black coffee
- Something new to learn
- Private time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- How things work, and how to make them work better.
- Advances in phytoplankton culture.
- Whether I should take Rudy's head apart to fix his eyelid solenoid.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
More likely to be home or at a friend's place - I much prefer intimate gatherings to the crush of going out on a Friday - that's what Tuesdays are for.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think people over-share with (relative) strangers.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You'd like to grab a drink or a coffee and meet someone new.
- You're sharp and you give as good as you get.
- You need a cribbage opponent.