Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I wander through the days wondering what I am doing. I enjoy the
time I spend not in this reality. I work writing code which will
eventually do something. I also look for ways to solve problems in
better ways. I am constantly thinking and solving problems even
when there are no real problems to solve. I am compassionate and
honest some might say to a fault with the honesty. But that is what
works for me, I appreciate honest people.
I also enjoy life as much as I can, I like going up to the
"mountains" (they are hills around here). I would love to live in
the country as I like the tranquility of nature. Also having space
of my own to have a wood shop and big garage would be lovely.
I also am drawn by water and find that the flow of a stream or the
currents in a river are a good example of how to live my life. I
attempt to live with the flow of whatever comes my way. I am
looking for someone who might just fit into the flow of life that
My thoughts flow with logic and as such I find difficulty in
satisfying silly rules such as grammar. The constraints keep people
in line and don't encourage freedom of thought and expression. If
you are one of the people who insist on grammar know I try, but the
concern on the top of the list in my head is keeping up with the
flow of my thoughts.
I am introverted, very kind, bright, and dreaming, always
I also suffer from Major Depressive disorder, on occasion this
rules my life even if I would prefer it didn't. I seek to find
enjoyment in my life, and to understand my reality. I also have
asperger's syndrome, so I'm not wonderful with reading emotional
cues, and this is a major reason I appreciate honesty and dialog.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in Technology, IT, systems administration and engineering.
Trying to work my way into a job in information security and am
studying infosec in my spare time attempting to learn everything I
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Well good is a quality judgment and well I'm not a fan of quality
judgments. However, if a quality judgment must be made about me I
may as well make it. So I am really good at procrastinating and
avoiding questions which I don't like.
I'm also fairly proficient with a computer and other electronic
equipment. I can also fix most things although I seem to be able to
break things almost as well. I am typically able to fix what I
break so it turns out alright.
I'm also good at listening to people. Also I have a knack for
solving problems even if I don't know much about the problem. If it
interests me I might throw my mind into it and not stop until I
figure something out.
To me a problem to solve which interests me can keep me going and
happy for a long time. Sometimes I wish I wasn't able to solve some
of the problems to continue the search for a solution.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair perhaps, or my blue eyes. Or its my general good looks and
charm... Ok its the hair and eyes. Although I've been told by some
I am charming I don't understand it but if others say so who am I
to not appreciate a compliment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
, The Sea Runners
, The Trial,
The Rebel , Snow
I also have a thing for science books and books on technical
Iron, Yes, Deer
, Hard Boiled, GO
the korean version, Attack the Gas Station
, The Royal Tenenbaums
The God of
, Assination Tango,C'tait un rendez-vous
Mood for Love
, Shoot em up
, Charlie Wilson's War
, and basically anything
on history channel although I'm not a big fan of the war history
items anymore. I also am into the Discovery channel and TLC and
then SCFI channel.
Music: The Postal Service, P-funk
, Flogging Molly
, Ramones, Joy
Division, Johnny Cash, Les Claypool
, Herbie Hancock
, Jurassic 5
, lindsey stirling. I'm
somewhat eclectic in my taste in music but for the most part am not
a fan of country music.
say sushi but I hate rolls. Just about anything I cook. BBQ and
Southwestern are my styles of choice. Or perhaps anything spicy
. I just love food I
guess and Cooking.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I need computers for my work, also like tech so they are items
which would be difficult to go without.
A very comfortable bed, or hammock
Air Conditioning (I tend to overheat easily, I think I wouldn't
need the air conditioning if it stayed at 70 or lower most of the
My dog (I miss her since she passed and haven't been able to get a
new dog as of yet)
A car is nice to have, probably wouldn't travel to far without one.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Truth and how people believe in truth and that people need to stop
seeking a ultimate truth and accept that the world is made up of
functional truths which allow people to have a common starting
point to argue around. Perhaps also the idea that everything in my
reality is in truth just an extension of my mind.
Perhaps I Just think about the way things happen around me and I
notice but take no care in dealing with.
Why out of ten conversations in a restaurant I inevitably overhear
one that I just don't want to hear.
Oh yes and where I can find the money for a warehouse to house
myself and all the things wandering in my mind as well as the
antiques, wooden boats, and old cars I would love to restore. I
must add to this one that I also want a place so I can start my
electric car project. I think it also must be a good space for me
to have a photography studio, as I find a renewed enjoyment from
Also right now how the hell Ok cupid rates me as more adventurous
than most. I admit I am willing to try almost anything, however,
lately haven't been all that adventurous, although I guess I could
strive to get back to a place where I am adventurous.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well typically it involves recovering from a week at work. I would
enjoy having it be filled with something interesting. A
conversation with a friend or friends or perhaps meeting new
people. I enjoy a quiet lifestyle for the most part I am not often
found at bars, or clubs however, it can happen.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm somewhat of a fatalist. I've suffered from Major Depressive
disorder for most of my life. I have a good grasp of it most of the
time. I think I might have a fundamentally different view of the
world than most. I am not exactly private about my Depression when
it comes down to it.
You should message me if
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You are interested and interesting.
Also you read the most private thing I'm willing to admit part and
are alright with that.
I just appreciate a bright woman and find a woman with a brain
You can deal with a somewhat shy, and sometimes (possibly mostly)
I also am very receptive to people who have issues with mental
health as I can relate to many issues. I really get along well with
people who are bipolar for some reason.
I'm well aware that most women wouldn't message me first, however,
if I sent you a message a reply would be wonderful even if the
reply is fuck off.
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